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05/20/2025

For 15 years my Principle, and the congregation has been doing a 2 mile prayer walk down a major crime infested street. We’ve been stopping and praying in front of one of the sources of the crime a liquor store. This year the church purchased it. This brings another element to have to protect against.

12/05/2024

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06/16/2024

TO THE MEN...

1. Find male friends who warn you when you are heading in the wrong direction, not men who watch you walk into a fire and think its none of their business

2. Find male friends who respect the woman you love, not the ones who incite you to mistreat her and take her for granted

3. Find male friends who you can trust with your children and can mentor them, not those who are horrible role models

4. Find male friends who invest with you, not those who waste your money as they drink with you

5. Find male friends who are about making a legacy, not just making money

6. Find male friends who will value your family and understand why you need to go home early, not those who rubbish your home and steal your family time

7. Find male friends you can vent to and open up to, not those you pretend you are buddies with but you can't trust with your struggles

8. Find male friends who will rebuke you when you don't treat your wife right, not those who encourage you to slap and dominate her

9. Find male friends who will tell you tough truths as a brother, not those who stroke your ego because they want something from you

10. Find male friends with a vision and who sharpen you like iron sharpens iron, not those who are comfortable in being lost and waste your greatness

11. Find male friends who want to talk about life issues and the state of your inner man as they pray with you, not those who all they talk about is sports

12. Find male friends who teach you how to respect women, not those who lure you into talking about women as s*x objects and trophies

13. Find male friends who seek solutions, not those who talk big about politics but do nothing to impact society

TO THE LADIES...

1. Find lady friends who pray and inspire, not those who gossip

2. Find lady friends who respect your man, not those who trash him

3. Find lady friends who snap you out of your negativity, not those who join you in complaining and feeling sorry

4. Find lady friends who you can rely on to take care of your children in case of an emergency, not those you can't trust to model values to your young ones

5. Find lady friends who bring you progress and peace, not those who bring you drama and scandals

6. Find lady friends who give you good advice born out of sisterly love and wisdom, not those who mislead you due to their bitterness and jealousy

7. Find lady friends who invest with you and tell you of opportunities, not those who are OK with their current season as they tell you juicy news about others

8. Find lady friends who are happy for your growth and want you to succeed, not those who see you as a threat

9. Find lady friends who respect your love life, not those who make moves on your man

10. Find lady friends who challenge your mind, not those who only talk about beauty and trends

11. Find lady friends who will bless you, not those who will drain you and use you

12. Find lady friends who will calm you down when you are about to make an irrational decision, not those who cheer you on as you mess up

13. Find lady friends who keep your secrets, not those who pretend to be good to you only to share your private matters with others and betray you

Look for friends who bring you peer influence, not peer pressure

12/28/2023

The Chicago Assembly Holiday Gala.

12/18/2023

HOW TO BE ALWAYS HAPPY IN LIFE. READ THIS AWESOME LIFE TIPS.
1. Always remember that there is nobody on this earth that does not have problems. You are not the only one that has problems.
2. Challenges is part of life. It is only a dead man that has no challenges.
3. There is no problem that has no solution. There are solutions to the pains you are passing through.
4. The way you picture yourself in your mind can affect your happiness. Picture yourself as a valuable and beautiful person. Avoid low self esteem and inferiority complex.
5. Do not mind about what people say about you. Some people are sadists. They can just say somethings just to make you feel sad.
6. Make friends with reasonable people who make you happy. Do not make friends with people who make jest of you or laugh at you over your challenges.
7. At your leisure time, keep yourself busy with your favorite hobbies like sports, games, watching movies, surfing the internet, playing computer games, etc.
8. Do not allow anyone to intimidate you with money and material things. A poor man today can become rich tomorrow. Change is constant.
9. No matter what you are passing through today, do not give up. As long as there is life, there is hope.
10. Be very prayerful. Pray without ceasing. Prayer is a catalyst that can speed up your blessings to come to you on time.
11. Be courageous to go for what you want. Life is all about risk. If you don't take a risk, you will not get the desires of your heart.

Never change your originality for the sake of others. Because no one can play your role better than you.
You are the best. So be yourself...

HAVE A NICE LIFE.

12/17/2023

14 WAYS TO MAKE YOUR SPOUSE ENJOY SPENDING TIME WITH YOU

1. BE PEACEFUL
People find themselves coming back to where they find peace

2. MEET YOUR SPOUSE'S NEEDS
When your spouse knows that from you, their s*xual and emotional needs are met, they will keep coming back

3. BE APPRECIATIVE
Celebrate your spouse, show that you value him/her. People go where they are celebrated, not tolerated

4. ADD VALUE
When your spouse is with you, let him/her leave better, wiser, more refreshed, lighter, happier than they were before. Be that person who adds value to your spouse's purpose and quality of day

5. DO NOT BE JUDGEMENTAL
Refrain from being one who makes conclusive statements such as "You always do this and that" or looking at your spouse differently when he/she does something that doesn't sit right with you or opens up to you about something unpleasant. People avoid environments of judgment

6. BE GOOD AT TOUCHING
Learn how to touch your spouse, how he/she loves being held. Your spouse will keep coming for the touch

7. AVOID FIGHTS
Have control over your temper, know how to deescalate things. Not every disagreement should result into a fight. Avoid drama

8. DON'T COMPLAIN YOUR SPOUSE IS NOT SPENDING TIME WITH YOU
The mistake many make is to attack and complain to their spouse about how he/she no longer makes time. This pushes your spouse away instead of inviting your spouse

9. TALK ABOUT WHAT HE/SHE LIKES
Learn your spouse's favourite topics and engage. It will keep you from being boring

10. BE FUN
Don't take life too seriously, don't suck the air in the room, don't be negative. Respond to your spouse's naughtiness, flirting and playful nature. Fun is inviting

11. BE A GOOD LISTENER
People go where they feel heard. Don't dominate conversations. Show your spouse his/her thoughts, opinions and stories matter

12. COMMUNICATE THAT YOU MISS YOUR SPOUSE
Let your spouse know how great a time you two have together. It will make your spouse feel important

12/17/2023

MARRIAGE IS NOT A SCAM...✍️

1. Marriage is not a scam. It is just that some men are getting married with a lowly and negative view of women and some women marrying with a repulsive and suspicious view of men. Work on your view of the opposite gender.

2. Marriage is not a scam. It is just that some couples are living together without having a joint vision and values. Work on the foundation of your marriage.

3. Marriage is not a scam. It is just that some people are marrying for the wrong motives, when the motive is wrong, everything crumbles. Ask yourself and your spouse, "Why did you get married?"

4. Marriage is not a scam. It is just that some people are too selfish in marriage to consider the other person. Love calls you to be considerate of the other.

5. Marriage is not a scam. It is just that some people married and became parents without sufficient preparation. What you're not prepared for will overwhelm you. Study, learn, buy books, read articles, go for counselling to equip you with tools in how to be a better parent and spouse. Don't pretend to be a "Know it all" yet your family is not getting your best.

6. Marriage is not a scam. It is that some people would rather hold on to their pride than admit wrong and say sorry. Your marriage needs humility.

7. Marriage is not a scam. It is just that some people are getting married without healing from the pain of their childhood. The bullying, rejection, pain, trauma you experienced as a child can destroy your marriage if you don't heal.

8. Marriage is not a scam. It is just that some people used to quit easily in their dating relationships and now they don't know how to quit in marriage because they are tied by a marriage certificate, public pressure and children. Stop this habit of being a quitter, marriage will require effort. This is not dating, this is marriage.

9. Marriage is not a scam. It is just some are sadly listening to the wrong advice of bitter friends and hurting social media souls that will make you think marriage is the worst thing on earth. Check who you listen to and what you consume.

10. Marriage is not a scam. It is just that some are putting the right effort in affairs and not in their marriage; making affairs look exciting and marriage boring. Put that investment and energy in your marriage, not outside.

11. Marriage is not a scam. It is just that most people did not receive a good example from their parent's marriage. Your parents should not determine the quality of family you have. You two determine how this love will go.

12. Marriage is not a scam. It is just that many adults know what to do to make things right, but because of anger, laziness or self centeredness they refuse to put it into action. Why are you being stubborn?

13. Marriage is not a scam. It is just that people are itching to hold on to bad news. Negative news about marriage spreads faster than good news. Don't believe the lie that every couple is in misery. There are many thriving couples out there.

14. Marriage is not a scam. It is just that most people would rather gossip and slander a couple going through an issue than pray and support them. Each couple has challenges and with the right mindset, support and actions; they will make it, becoming better than they were before the challenge.

15. Marriage is not a scam. It is just that many people are inconsistent in their effort in marriage. They give their spouse mixed signals. Maturity calls for consistency. Make up your mind, are you two making this marriage work or not?

16. Marriage is not a scam. It is just that most people give up too easily. They expect a good marriage instantly, you have keep at it over time.

12/16/2023

7 Better Ways To Handle Relationship Issues Without Fighting And Quarrelling

A lot of couples, married or in a relationship can’t handle issues without a fight or a quarrel. Hard as it may sound, there are actually ways you can handle your relationship issues without having to fight or quarrel.

1. Put Aside Pride And Ego:

Two of the major reasons couples have so many unsettled issues are pride and ego. These two forces would make you want to win every argument, they would make you see your partner’s point as inferior and would also push you into believing that you are always right.

2. Handle Your Emotions:

It’s also important to keep your emotions in check when faced with a relationship issue. There is a thin line between having a talk with your partner and having a heated argument. When emotions aren’t put in check, they lead partners to having heated arguments.

3. Avoid Accusations And Counter Accusations:

When settling a dispute with your partner, one important rule to always remember is avoiding accusations. Avoid the blame games and who you felt was wrong. When you are still at who’s wrong and who isn’t, your dispute might never get settled — you would only keep hovering around accusations without making any meaningful impact.

4. Listen:

Sometimes, all partners have to do is hear each other out. When trying to handle relationship issues, practice listening to each other — if you can find a way to listen to each other, your relationship would be better off for this.

5. Avoid Interrupting Your Partner:

This goes hand in hand with the previous tip. Listen to your partner and allow your partner to conclude speaking before you respond. When this principle is applied, communication becomes easier, and proper communication is what would help you and your partner settle issues properly and with understanding. Always remember that communication fosters understanding.

6. Think Before You Speak:

While this might seem hard, but it’s also important. Avoid name calling and try not to hurt your partner with your words. Speak fairly; this is important. If you can, call your partner sweet names while discussing; this would calm any form of hostility.

7. Acknowledge Your Partner’s Feeling:

Honestly, this is a good tactic to winning your partner over and keeping the argument calm. Statements like ‘I understand how you feel’ would only help melt your partner’s tough stance.

Don’t spoil the love in relationship/marriage with unnecessary fights and arguments. There are always better ways of doing things.

12/08/2023

HOW TO LOSE A GOOD MAN:

1. Make it hard to love you. He has alot of love to give and doesn't want to waste it

2. Flirt with other men. The thought of you arousing other men rips his heart apart

3. Play hard to get. He doesn't mind chasing after you. But if you stretch the chase too much he will get tired. He doesn't want games, he wants progress, he wants to settle

4. Praise other men above him. There is no point of him being with you if you admire another man/men more

5. Believe in rumors and what others say more than his truth

6. Fail to believe in him saying that good men don't exist. Lady, not every man is the same; your negative attitude can drive a good man away

7. Stress him and make his life unbearable. Loving you ought to be a blessing

8. Punish him for what your ex did. Doubt him and accuse him for crimes he hasn't committed

9. Spend more time with your girlfriends than with him. Be unavailable to him. He doesn't just want the position of being your man but to be treated like your man

10. Fail to cover him when he is being attacked by your family, friends and public

11. Bad mouth him, belittle him and shame him in public

12. Bring another man between you two. Why should he compete for you with another man if he is exclusively your man?

13. Change into a monster he cannot stay committed to. If he found in you a good woman, and then you change drastically, to the point staying with you is no longer sustainable no matter how hard he tried to bring back the you he fell in love with

14. Demonstrate that you two are not compatible. A man might like you or even love you. But if it is clear that you are good looking but you two are struggling, being with you is a constant fight, he is ever on the edge when with you, he is not at home with you,he has tried to make you two work but in vain; he will wonder what more can he do

15. Nag him until he leaves. Being with you means he has no peace

16. Fail to appreciate him. See him as worthless, beneath you, not good enough for you. Mock his mistakes, downgrade him because he earns less money than you

17. Have a low self-esteem. Lady, it is your responsibility to feel good about yourself. If you are constantly seeing yourself as unworthy, drowning yourself in self pity, seeing yourself as undeserving of his good love; you will drain him

18. Be indecisive. Say yes to be his woman, then break up with him, then want him back, then mistreat him, then beg him to come back, be unsure of what you want. Do this and he will stop trusting you with his heart

19. Bruise his ego. Make fun of his p***s, make fun of how he doesn't s*xually satisfy you instead of helping him please you, mock his educational background and his career achievements

20. Get drunk, become an alcoholic, shaming him. Especially if he is a man who detests drunkenness

21. Cheat on him. Have an affair

Lady, please note that a good man may remain your man or husband because he honors his vow and promise to you despite how much you stress him. But even as he stays and you do these negative things, he may not be as enthusiastic about loving you because you have lost him eventhough you haven't lost the title of being his woman/wife. Some good men are staying with their women but are unhappy because they feel pushed away. If you have a good man, hold on to him, make it easy to love you. Such men are hard to come by

11/27/2023

IMPORTANT PRIVACY UPDATE: If you have an iPhone and have done the recent iOS 17 update, they have set a new feature called NameDrop defaulted to ON. This feature allows the sharing of your contact info just by bringing your phones close together. To shut this off go to Settings, General, AirDrop, Bringing Devices Together. Change to OFF.

PARENTS: Don’t forget to change these settings after the update on your children’s phones, also, to help keep them safe as well!

UPDATE! Yes we understand you have to accept the transfer of information. Not everyone understands what the phone is asking for and they just accept what is asked. Also, some parents have androids and kids have iPhones. We are just trying to help people protect themselves and kids!

11/24/2023

BE CAREFUL OF THESE PEOPLE, THEY WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE...!!!

THE WRONG PEOPLE...

Never move with people who despise you.

Never move with people who do not value your person.

Never move with people who never see your quota in the bargain.

Never move with people whose target is their aim alone.

Never move with people who are always waiting for you to make your next mistake.

Never move with people who are ready to trample dowm on you when you fall.

Never move with people who see nothing good about you, no matter how hard you try.

Never move with people who never want to celebrate your little progress.

THOSE WHO LOVE YOU...

Move in the company of people, who are chasing the same vision as you.
People who have the same values as you.

People who believe in the grace of God upon your life.

People who believe in God's several abilities deposited in you.

People who bring out the best in you.
People who feel your pain in your down town.

People who challenge you to do better.

People who genuinely love you.

People who are open to you.

People who will see your mistakes and genuinely want to help you.

People who will genuinely help you up, even when you fall.

AFTER ALL IS SAID & DONE...

Being in the right company of people can be the defining factor that changes how far you can go in life.

THINK ABOUT IT!!!

GOD BLESS YOU❤️🙏

11/23/2023

13 This is the very best way to love. Put your life on the line for your friends. Happy birthday