12/06/2025
Years ago I read this on the CAC.org site and it really reasonated with me and iâd like to share it with you on being purely present to othersâŠ
Pure Presence
Wisdom is not the gathering of more facts and information, as if that would eventually coalesce into truth. Wisdom is a way of seeing and knowing the same old ten thousand things but in a new way. Itâs not about knowing more, but with more of you. It is suggested that wise people are those in who are free to be truly present to what is right in front of them. It has little to do with formal education. Presence is pretty much the same as wisdom!
Presence is the one thing necessary to attain wisdom, and in many ways, it is the hardest thing of all. Just try to keep your heart open and soft, your mind receptive without division or resistance, and your body aware of where it is and its deepest level of feeling. Presence is when all three centers are awake at the same time! Most religions decided it was easier to believe doctrinesâand obey often arbitrary lawsâthan undertake the truly converting work of being present.
The Zen master Thich Nhat Hanh teaclles this wisdom through the ceremony and meditation of tea (a Buddhist parallel to the Christian Eucharist):
You must be completely awake in omy the present to enjoy the tea.
Only in the awareness of the present, can your hands feel the pleasant warmth of the cup.
Only in the present, can you savor the aroma, taste the sweetness, appreciate the delicacy.
If you are ruminating about the past, or worrying about the future, you will completely miss the experience of enjoying the cup of tea.
You will look down at the cup, and the tea will be gone.
Life is like that.
If you are not fully present, you will look around and it will be gone. You will have missed these feel, the aroma, the delicacy and beauty of life.
It will seem to be speeding past you.
The past is finished.
Learn from it and let it go.
The future is not even here yet. Plan for it, but do not waste your time worrying about it.
Worrying is worthless.
When you stop ruminating about what has already happened, when you stop worrying about what might never happen, then you will be in the present moment.
Then you will begin to experience joy in life.
As you eat your next mealâperhaps with family gathered for the next meal togetherâenter into the experience mindfully. Savor the aroma. Taste the sweetness. Appreciate the delicacy. Experience the joyâright nowâwithout needing anyone to notice. But they will!
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