02/10/2023
Well lookie there, is that THURSDAY we're seeing on the calendar??
It sure is, folks! We've got an excellent accelerator for you today, as well as some words of wisdom from people that know more about psychology than us.
Today's quote comes from Clifford Nass, a professor of communications at Stanford.
"Some people do have a more positive outlook, but almost everyone remembers negative things more strongly and in more detail."
Woof. That's not great to hear, but it makes sense, right?! We imagine you could name the last 10 times someone criticized you without even thinking about it. We're sure you could recall those times with enough detail to even remember what time it was, or what you were wearing. Now, try to do the same with your last 10 compliments! That one's a lot harder, right?
Well, it turns out that's a feature, not a bug! Our brains are hardwired to be crisis-averse. We, as a species, REALLY don't like pain, disappointment, stress, etc. We all go out of our ways, consciously & subconsciously, to avoid people, places, or things that will lead us to these feelings. We're sure that long ago in the time of cavemen, it was ACUTELY important to remember where you ran into that darn saber-tooth tiger.
These days, the "saber-tooth tiger" is usually social or financial stressors, but we hang onto the feelings just the same.
We're actually not telling you this to depress you (shocking, we know), but to equip you with the knowledge to go and become the best problem solver extraordinaire you can be! If you're thinking about those types of things, or dwelling on those negative emotions, realize that there's likely many more compliments and praise that's just not "making it through the filter".
Take some time out of your day to reflect on all the positive things that have happened to you recently. Even during the worst times, waking up and having a new day is a blessing.
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That's it for us this week, folks! We hope, as always, you've enjoyed our words of wisdom, and hope you can always remember the positives during trying times!
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