05/08/2025
People ask me all the time:
“𝗪𝗼𝘄. 𝗠𝗮𝗻𝘂𝗳𝗮𝗰𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗯𝗶𝗼𝘁𝗲𝗰𝗵? 𝗛𝗼𝘄’𝗱 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗱𝗲𝗰𝗶𝗱𝗲 𝗼𝗻 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩?”
Actually, I chose it...eventually.
I’m not here to just make things 'pretty'.
I’m here to make the complex clear, the technical tangible, and the overlooked unforgettable.
That discovery of who I am, who I help, and why, has taken years.
But this talk was the first time I fully owned it out loud.
𝗜 𝗴𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝗮 𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗲𝗰𝗵. 𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝗜 𝗱𝗶𝗱𝗻’𝘁 𝘁𝗿𝗶𝗽, 𝗰𝗿𝘆, 𝗼𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗿𝗼𝘄 𝘂𝗽. 𝗦𝗼 𝗜’𝗺 𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝘁 𝗮 𝘄𝗶𝗻.
When asked by the University of Minnesota College of Design to be one of the 7 design professionals to speak for 7 minutes about their design journey, I pictured a low-key classroom chat. Maybe 20 students. Casual.
It turned out to be an on-stage, bright lights, 300-person audience of design students and PEERS (their 15th annual) kind of situation.
Oh.
And there I was—grappling with that awful, familiar voice in my head:
“Who do you think you are?”
𝗧𝗼 𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝘂𝗽 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗲𝗹𝗹 𝗺𝘆 𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗿𝘆...𝗔𝘀 𝗶𝗳 𝗽𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝗰𝗮𝗿𝗲!?
But here’s the thing: they did.
And afterward, they called my story something I didn’t expect:
“Inspiring.”
(I’m still letting that one sink in.)
Thank you Shawn Judge, speaking coach, for helping me get out of my own head and into the moment.
And to the event organizers at the College of Design Lori Mollberg and Jodi Jabs, the board, MC, and the other speakers: thank you for the opportunity and the unforgettable energy in that room!
I stayed behind the podium and read from notes—my only regret.
Because that vintage dress I wore? DESERVED a full reveal, ha!
🎥 Here’s the full video if you’re curious how it went:
👉 Watch now: https://shorturl.at/IxAke
If you’re waiting to feel ready before you say yes to the scary stuff...don’t.
Say yes anyway.
Growth hides in the discomfort.
And sometimes, in a vintage dress behind a podium.
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