03/25/2021
Over the last year I have had to be reminded that we can't plan birth! I cannot control the outcome of birth. As a doula, I feel like I need to save my clients from certain situations but, in the end, I can't. Birth will happen how and when it is supposed to happen. Sometimes birth needs medical help, and that's ok. Sometimes I can't be in the room with my clients, and that's ok. I will still find a way to support them.
A quote I read from a wonderful book called "Birth Without Fear" says "prepare and prepare some more. Then, surrender to the journey." That is exactly what I help my clients do; Prepare for the birth they desire but, be flexible.
I've had the privilege of witnessing the love and selflessness of new mothers. Watching them know when to make the right decision for their baby, I got to see how mothers continue to put their children first.
Did this last year make me have to stop and ask myself why I became a doula and if I wanted to continue? Sure did! It was an emotional year.
Do I want to continue to be a doula and support women? Of course! No matter what direction birth takes, if you want me there, I'll be there! I'll continue to sit with my clients through whatever situation arises because that is what doulas do! Not only do we provide physical support but also emotional and educational support. We help you navigate through whatever birth you have and hope that, in the end, you walk away feeling empowered.
-Hollie
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