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the apps keep adding new features. we keep asking the same question - is any of this actually about helping you meet som...
10/08/2026

the apps keep adding new features.

we keep asking the same question - is any of this actually about helping you meet someone?

every time we look more deeply in, the answer is the same: it was never about the messy complexity of romantic relationships. its about money.

we break down the changes, in response to years’ of declining usage + the arrival of the AI era.

swipe through and judge for yourself.

sometimes the hardest part isn’t knowing what you want.it’s figuring out what needs to shift. maybe it’s a pattern you k...
10/07/2026

sometimes the hardest part isn’t knowing what you want.

it’s figuring out what needs to shift.

maybe it’s a pattern you keep repeating.

maybe it’s a lack of confidence.

maybe it’s that you’ve been out of the dating world for a while and don’t know how to get back in.

maybe you know you’re ready for something different — you just don’t know what that different looks like yet.

that’s where we come in. 🫶

Pair’d is designed to help you move from Point A => Point B, with coaching + matchmaking built around *you.*

link in bio to sign up for coaching or hop on a discovery call to explore matchmaking. 💌

there’s something very appealing about deciding you’re done with dating.no more awkwardness.no more deciphering if someo...
10/06/2026

there’s something very appealing about deciding you’re done with dating.

no more awkwardness.
no more deciphering if someone is actually interested.
no more analyzing texts at 2 a.m.

tempting.

alas: we’re built to bond + connect. its an innate desire.

so what do we do (with these seemingly competing forces)?

we believe it begins with understanding what’s actually happening - around us + within us.

that’s what we created Modern Dating 101 for.

link in bio to sign up.

10/02/2026

what if the goal isn’t to feel less discomfort, but to have more capacity for it?

because dating will bring up discomfort. intimacy will too.

someone doesn’t text back.
you have a hard conversation.
you actually start liking someone.
you notice yourself wanting to pull away.

your window of tolerance determines a lot about what happens next.

in this video, Laura Adery, Ph.D. shares 3 ways to expand your window of tolerance.

small practices that can make it a little easier to stay with yourself when connection gets uncomfortable.

comment below if any of this resonates!

10/02/2026

what if the goal isn’t to feel less discomfort, but to have more capacity for it?

because dating will bring up discomfort. intimacy will too.

someone doesn’t text back.
you have a hard conversation.
you actually start liking someone.
you notice yourself wanting to pull away.

your window of tolerance determines a lot about what happens next.

in this video, .laura.adery shares 3 ways to expand your window of tolerance.

small practices that can make it a little easier to stay with yourself when connection gets uncomfortable.

comment below if any of this resonates!

october said clear ur calendar.... we’ve got a full month of IRL connection coming your way 🫶here’s what we’ve got on de...
10/02/2026

october said clear ur calendar.... we’ve got a full month of IRL connection coming your way 🫶

here’s what we’ve got on deck across NYC, LA + SF - hopefully we’ll see you at on and hopefully at least one night that ends with a new number in ur phone 😉

link in bio for tix 🎟️

october said clear ur calendar.... we’ve got a full month of IRL connection coming your way 🫶here’s what we’ve got on de...
10/01/2026

october said clear ur calendar.... we’ve got a full month of IRL connection coming your way 🫶

here’s what we’ve got on deck across NYC, LA + SF - hopefully we'll see you at on and hopefully at least one night that ends with a new number in ur phone 😉

link in bio for tix 🎟️

when did your erotic energy go quiet?maybe you used to feel more connected to your body.more curious.more playful.more a...
09/30/2026

when did your erotic energy go quiet?

maybe you used to feel more connected to your body.

more curious.
more playful.
more aware of what you wanted.

and somewhere along the way, that part of you got a little harder to access.

we're living in a time when so much of our lives happen outside our bodies — on screens, in our heads, in routines that don't leave much room for sensation, curiosity, or desire.

and when your erotic energy has been dormant for a while, it can start to feel like you've lost touch with it entirely.

but erotic energy isn't just about s*x.

it's about aliveness. sensation. curiosity. desire.

and it's something you can reconnect with.

on oct 20, we're getting into what erotic energy actually is + practicing what it feels like to reconnect with your own.

come reawaken your erotic energy w us.

spots are limited. link in bio to grab ur spot.

want to help us make connection happen IRL? we’re hiring an event manager in NYC to help us bring The Feels to life - pl...
09/29/2026

want to help us make connection happen IRL?

we’re hiring an event manager in NYC to help us bring The Feels to life - planning, producing + making our singles events happen in the real world.

think this could be you? link in bio for more info + to apply. 📮

marriage is one of the places where love + money get easily tangled up in a myriad of ways.who earns.who stops earning.w...
09/25/2026

marriage is one of the places where love + money get easily tangled up in a myriad of ways.

who earns.
who stops earning.
who pays for what.
who has access.
who has the financial freedom to leave.

a lot of that can stay invisible for years.

until the marriage ends.

and then - the private financial reality of a marriage can become public knowledge. and, increasingly, public content.

women are taking what they learned through divorce - about money, marriage, themselves

+ some are building businesses around those stories.

it’s an interesting tension - the same institution that can make women financially dependent can also leave them with a story, an audience, and a new way to make money.

what’s here for all of us around money + relationships?

swipe through to find out.

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