09/09/2024
Ever since Robert K. Merton coined the term “self-fulfilling prophecy” in 1948, studies in cognitive psychology have shown that our expectations and words have immense power over behavior. When we tell ourselves, “This is going to go wrong,” we create internal anxiety, and often, our actions unconsciously lead us to that outcome. Paul Watzlawick, in The Art of Making Life Bitter, explores how negative language reinforces self-destructive patterns. In my latest Medium post, I invite you to explore a simple cognitive exercise that will help you keep the mental “weeds” under control, transforming negative thoughts into more flourishing territory. https://medium.com//can-you-turn-your-mind-into-a-garden-74259824cc93