05/14/2026
"The key is not to prioritize what's on your schedule, but to schedule your priorities." -Stephen Covey
The Leadership Juggling Act: Work / Life Integration. That was the title of the keynote I gave yesterday morning for the North Carolina Tax Collector Association. So great to visit with one of my former Greensboro neighbors, Donna Bailey too and grateful she helped me at my book table.
In 75 minutes our group explored the top 10 leadership traits that are powerful for 2026. I asked them to star two or three key areas that they wanted to work on for the rest of the year and also highlight focus areas that their team members to develop.
Then we identified eight key life integration areas that included career, finance, family, friends, self, community, health and spirit. We discussed each category and gave a score from 0 to 10 on a wheel to evaluate opportunities for focus and improvement.
The third segment involved strategies to solve problems and set healthy boundaries. Sprinkled throughout the entire program I shared nuggets of wisdom from some of the books that I have read in the past 30 years.
Don Miguel Ruiz, author of The Four Agreements says it’s important first - don’t take things personally, second - don’t make assumptions, third - be impeccable with your word, and fourth - do your best.
What an impact throughout the globe if everyone would embrace these four principles. A very special moment occurred when Diane Gilliland surprised me by saying her husband Steve Gilliland was going to be in the audience. He’s one of my speaker heroes and his book, Enjoy the Ride has been an inspiration to me.
You are what you read, think, say and do. Be careful about the people you let into your circle. You become what you surround yourself with. Stay in Peace & Joy. Move away from Negativity and Toxicity.
If you want to go to the next level you gotta be willing to Learn. Grow. Lead.
Life’s a journey. Make every day count!