05/24/2023
which is why when you say you WANT to change the world…nothing changes.
lack doesn’t precipitate abundance. neither does scarcity mentality, or playing into hierarchies of any kind…
you know what causes change? decisions.
point. blank. period.
i’ll give you an example. and you know how we do…relationships are everything…so here goes:
imagine someone has caught your eye at (insert fave social gathering place here). oooh chile. they are FINE. they dress well, based on your subjective standards.
you ask around.
they are an upstanding human. they’re smart and funny. they are generous and kind.
all. the. things. on. your. list.
you’re excited. this might just be that soulmate you’ve been longing for…
so you do what any love-loving person would do in the moment when they come across a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity…
you long for them.
that’s it.
no action taken. no love note with check box options. no dm or text. no ‘tell your people to call my people’. no lingering eye contact or wink. no dropping of personal item in obvious and semi-creepy way to see if they’ll help you…NOTHING.
you just spend all day and all night for the rest of your life WISHING y’all could do life together.
WHAT?!? NO…that makes no DAMN SENSE.
you’d DO SOMETHING. right?!
i mean. this is your DREAM?!? and you NEVER thought it would come true?!? and here it is…right in front of your face?!?
we ALL know you would DO SOMETHING…
even the shyest of folx would get their boldest homey to get the digits. am i right?!?
well…same.
social justice. equity in the workplace. opportunities for all folx to lead…all of it.
same. exact. thing.
you can only claim equity as your DREAM for so long before it stops making sense…because opportunities are abundant, but you’re still sitting in the corner waiting to make moves.
so, my question to you is…
are you gonna be about it, or nah?!?