02/14/2023
Today is Valentineโs Day, and it is time for not only expressing love but reflecting on how it is displayed.
Growing up, I was part of a family that didnโt express their love through words. Despite this, my parents provided a home filled with joy and celebration. Love was always present, even if it wasnโt verbally expressed.
Since culture is an invisible force, I had always assumed my own cultureโs customs were the norm. However, when I started interacting with people of different backgrounds, I realized that love is a shared experience, but its form of expression is unique to each culture. My conclusion of this was further strengthened after closely observing how clients from over 127 different nationalities expressed their love emotions.
So letโs embark on a global tour to discover how people from different cultures express their ๐.
In linear -Active cultures ( Western world), love is often expressed through tangible acts of service and generosity such as cooking a meal for a loved one, giving gifts, spending quality time . Love is also expressed through physical acts, words of affirmation, encouragement, and gratitude.
In Multi-Active cultures ( Arabic speaking countries, Latin America, Africa, and part of Europe) and depending on the specific belief and values of the culture, love is expressed through acts of service and hospitality ( Communalism), or through acts of charity and support (Social responsibility). Others may express it through physical gestures and acts of kindness.
In reactive cultures ( Much of Asia excluding India & Pakistan) love is generally expressed through both verbal and non verbal communication with all its forms including gifts and tokens of appreciation.
Love is universal, but its expression is local.
I found that the best way to show love to others is to love yourself first. If you canโt love yourself, it will be difficult to share it with others. As the Arabic proverb goes, โ You can not give what you do not have.โ
Love is a powerful emotion that can make us feel happy, fulfilled, and connected.
If you work across cultures, this is one area you need to be aware of.
How is love expressed in your side of the world ?
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Wishing you a very happy Valentineโs Day!
May it be filled with love and joy ๐คฉ