05/23/2026
When Life Changes Everything: A Conversation About Courage, Cancer, and Letting Go
A few years ago, life changed for my family in ways I never could have imagined.
What began as a routine appointment turned into a cancer diagnosis. Ten days after my surgery, my husband received his own diagnosis, Pancreatic Cancer, with a five percent survival rate.
In what felt like an instant, our lives became filled with surgeries, treatments, uncertainty, exhaustion, and the emotional weight of trying to hold everything together while quietly falling apart inside.
Recently, I had the opportunity to sit down with Bernice McDonald on the Tiny Brave Steps Podcast to talk about that season of life.
What I appreciated most about Bernice’s approach was the space she created. She asked thoughtful questions with so much care and compassion that it allowed me to revisit some very difficult moments honestly and reflect on what those experiences taught me about resilience, surrender, fear, faith, and courage.
This conversation is not just about cancer.
It’s about what happens when life becomes heavier than you expected.
It’s about the moments when you realize you cannot control everything, and the choice becomes:
Will I collapse under the weight of this?
Or will I learn how to respond to it differently?
One of the greatest lessons I learned during that season is this:
We are often stronger than we realize, but strength does not always look like “holding it together.”
Sometimes strength looks like:
- asking for help
- crying in the hallway before walking back into the room
- letting people care for you
- choosing presence over perfection
- surrendering what you cannot control
- taking the next tiny brave step
That season of life profoundly shaped the work I do today as a coach.
Many of the women I work with are carrying invisible weight:
career transitions, grief, uncertainty, burnout, identity shifts, family challenges, fear about what’s next.
What I know now is this:
You do not have to have every answer to move forward.
Sometimes courage is simply staying present long enough to take the next step.
I’m deeply grateful to Bernice for creating such a meaningful conversation and for handling these stories with so much humanity and care.
If this conversation encourages even one person who is walking through a difficult season right now, it was worth sharing.
You can listen to the episode here: https://tinybravestepspodcast.buzzsprout.com
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Thank you, Bernice, for the opportunity to share this story.
Cheering you on,
Mary Beth