10/27/2025
In the last few weeks, I’ve been out in the field talking to men about relationships… and a trend keeps showing up.
Most men say they’re not interested in serious relationships — just something casual.
And on our Core Affinity Matchmakers platform, it shows…
The men fill in their names and stop.
The women? They complete their profiles, ready for love.
When I ask the men why, I hear the same things —
‘I don’t want drama.’
‘I don’t want fake.’
‘I don’t want someone who just wants my money.’
But here’s the truth:
When you focus on what you *don’t* want, you keep attracting more of it.
Let’s flip that energy.
Focus on what you do want —
and go complete your partner preference section on Core Affinity Matchmakers…Link below:
core-affinity-matchmakers.smartmatchapp.com/client/submissionform/18/default
Intentional love starts with intentional focus.