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Loss of privilege is your insurance policy when other good faith attempts fail to correct your child’s behavior. Don’t b...
05/17/2025

Loss of privilege is your insurance policy when other good faith attempts fail to correct your child’s behavior.

Don’t be afraid to cash out.

Do these things early and often to establish your parental authority and promote your child’s competence and self-worth....
05/13/2025

Do these things early and often to establish your parental authority and promote your child’s competence and self-worth.

Playing therapist all the time is unhealthy and unhelpful.  Kids need your authenticity just as much as they need your c...
05/09/2025

Playing therapist all the time is unhealthy and unhelpful. Kids need your authenticity just as much as they need your calm.

Everyone needs a break from time to time, but constantly avoiding your child’s triggers will only worsen them.
05/05/2025

Everyone needs a break from time to time, but constantly avoiding your child’s triggers will only worsen them.

Meeting your social needs through your child blurs boundaries and puts an unfair burden on them.
04/28/2025

Meeting your social needs through your child blurs boundaries and puts an unfair burden on them.

👉🏻 Modern parenting often promotes constant emotional processing, claiming it builds resilience. But many educators, mys...
04/25/2025

👉🏻 Modern parenting often promotes constant emotional processing, claiming it builds resilience. But many educators, myself included, are seeing the opposite—more kids struggling with age-appropriate stress and appearing emotionally fragile.

👉🏻 What’s really happening:
Parents are moving away from dismissive past parenting styles toward one that values validation—and rightly so. Kids do need to feel seen and heard. But without a clear boundary that parents aren’t responsible for their child’s emotions, this well-meaning approach can backfire. If kids are never encouraged to manage their own feelings, they’ll rely on others to do it for them.

👉🏻 To prevent emotional dependence and maintain secure attachment, set a boundary that says: “I see you, I care, but I trust you to handle your feelings.” This helps kids feel supported while also learning to self-regulate—an essential skill for life.

In 2025, parents need to be prepared to get creative in holding their child accountable if they’re misbehaving during sp...
04/24/2025

In 2025, parents need to be prepared to get creative in holding their child accountable if they’re misbehaving during sports/ extracurriculars since schools/coaches have limited disciplinary measures due to parental backlash.

I am not anti-screen; I actually advocate for finding ways to incorporate them in a balanced way.  However, some situati...
04/22/2025

I am not anti-screen; I actually advocate for finding ways to incorporate them in a balanced way. However, some situations simply call for their complete removal until the parent has regained control of their home and their child is meeting high expectations again.

Kids need space, but they also need opportunities to acknowledge the positives in their life, confide in trustworthy peo...
04/22/2025

Kids need space, but they also need opportunities to acknowledge the positives in their life, confide in trustworthy people, and understand the importance of reciprocity in relationships.

Normalize needing a moment to think - not “I don’t know” as an acceptable response.

Sometimes, the greatest support we can give is simply space to try again.Because when we do less, we empower kids to do ...
04/19/2025

Sometimes, the greatest support we can give is simply space to try again.
Because when we do less, we empower kids to do so much more.

Normalize feelings - not all actions in response to those feelings.
04/17/2025

Normalize feelings - not all actions in response to those feelings.

We are meant to live in community and depend on each other at times, but we are also meant to be independent in age-appr...
04/14/2025

We are meant to live in community and depend on each other at times, but we are also meant to be independent in age-appropriate ways.

Secure attachment = trust in oneself and trust in others.

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