06/19/2026
There was a time when I thought leadership was only related to career. Or it was about having the answers.
About being capable enough, prepared enough, productive enough, successful enough.
I thought if I could just learn a little more, achieve a little more, or hold everything together a little better, I would finally arrive at some version of myself that felt complete. Ready. âRight.â
But itâs funny because what I discovered instead was that many of the things I was trying to solve had nothing to do with leadership or success.
They were relationship problems.
My relationship with rest.
My relationship with worth.
My relationship with asking for help.
My relationship with being heard.
And over the years, I noticed the same thing showing up in the women, leaders, founders, and business owners I worked with.
Brilliant people. Compassionate people. People with incredible visionsâŠ
They were carrying invisible stories that shaped how they delegated, communicated, made decisions, trusted others, and showed up for themselves.
Stories that often began long before they ever started a business.
That realization changed everything for me. Because it meant leadership was never just about success or being an expert in a field.
It was about understanding the human being underneath it all.
That is why Psychology of The Heartâą exists.
Because I believe leadership goes beyond career. Itâs how we wake up in the morning. How we lead ourselves in the dark. How we shine in cramped spaces. Itâs honest, and itâs raw, and itâs human.
Leadership can create success, but itâs only sustainable when weâre honest about what we carry.
Honest about what drives us.
Honest about the patterns that shape our lives until we are willing to look at them.
I am still learning. Iâm still growing.
And, Iâm still uncovering new layers of myself.
But one thing I know for certain is this:
The more fully we become ourselves, the easier it becomes to build a life and career that actually fits.
So Iâll leave you with the same question I often ask myself:
What part of you already knows the truth, but is still waiting for permission to be heard?