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Marias Message A space for parents and caregivers seeking guidance, connection, and hope while raising differently‑abled children. My self pay rates are very reasonable.

Consulting and Parent coaching -I have 18 years experience working with families of children with special needs. I understand the need for support and advocacy for school and community services; as my daughter is a person with special needs. I provide education on IDEA & IEP school services, link families with community & financial resources, and offer parent to parent support/advocacy services.

I am also scheduling speaking engagements-I can speak at your parent or community group on a variety of topics including: empathy, trauma, disability and resilience. ~ Maria Smaldino Spencer

Must read for all parents. Thank you Living FULL, by Danielle Sherman-Lazarhttps://www.facebook.com/share/p/17Yo42X3ue/
12/31/2025

Must read for all parents. Thank you Living FULL, by Danielle Sherman-Lazar
https://www.facebook.com/share/p/17Yo42X3ue/

Here’s an important lesson I’ve learned headed into 2026: Earlier doesn’t always mean better.⁣⁣
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Her kid walked at one year, yours walked at eighteen months, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 it doesn’t matter.⁣⁣
Her kid potty-trained at two years old, yours didn't potty-train until four years old, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 it doesn’t matter.⁣⁣
Her kid recognized all his letters and numbers before pre-school, yours had no interest until almost four, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 it doesn’t matter.⁣⁣
Her kid was sleeping through the night by three months, yours wasn’t sleeping through the night until two years old, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 it doesn’t matter.⁣⁣
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Because reaching developmental milestones early means 𝘯𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 in the long run.⁣⁣
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Because a college professor won’t wonder how old her students were when they could count to one hundred or spell their names.⁣⁣
And no one will know or care if the Harvard graduate or the CEO had a pacifier or didn't potty-train until five years old.⁣⁣
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What matters most is the whole child,⁣⁣
who 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 are,⁣⁣
and how kind 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 are⁣⁣
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So let the pressure go,⁣⁣
and let your kids be kids.⁣⁣
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Don’t rush them through their childhoods,⁣⁣
and make them miss out⁣⁣
because they’re too busy meeting milestone after milestone.⁣⁣
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Besides, earlier doesn’t always mean better.
𝘐𝘵 𝘫𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘮𝘦𝘢𝘯𝘴 𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘭𝘪𝘦𝘳.

Living FULL by Danielle Sherman-Lazar

Great guidance!
12/31/2025

Great guidance!

IEP Accommodations for Improving Self-Control

Practical, evidence-based supports teachers can add to an IEP to help students manage impulses across the school day.

Link in first comment.

This picture is worth a thousand words. Mama- we see you. We see you carrying the weight of your household, your work, y...
12/23/2025

This picture is worth a thousand words. Mama- we see you. We see you carrying the weight of your household, your work, your children. If you are feeling invisible today, I want to encourage you to let someone know your needs-it is ok to rest, it is ok to sit, BREATHE. Remember during this season that it is ok if you can't be everything to everyone. Please TRULY take care of yourself 💜 Photo: https://www.instagram.com/just_chill_mama/ #

Let the preschoolers play! Play builds social emotional skills like nothing else!  Shumaker
12/23/2025

Let the preschoolers play! Play builds social emotional skills like nothing else! Shumaker

Hope is my favorite word. Love this description of Hope by  Banas 💜
12/22/2025

Hope is my favorite word. Love this description of Hope by Banas 💜

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12/22/2025

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Judy Heumann -- the renowned activist known as the “mother of the disability rights movement" -- was born on this day in 1947. Heumann, who used a wheelchair for mobility after surviving polio at the age of 18 months, helped lead the fight to establish the world's first comprehensive civil rights law protecting the rights of people with disabilities: the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA). As she once observed, “when other people see you as a third-class citizen, the first thing you need is a belief in yourself and the knowledge that you have rights. The next thing you need is a group of friends to fight back with.”

Pictured here as TIME's Women of the Year for 1977, Heumann was at the center of multiple battles for civil rights for people with disabilities, most famously the 504 Sit-In. Organized by Heumann, Kitty Cone, and Mary Jane Owen, over 150 other activists occupied the San Francisco Office of the U.S. Department of Health, Education and Welfare for 25 days in 1977 demanding the implementation of Section 504 of the Rehabilitation Act, one of the first federal disability rights laws. The 504 Sit-In remains the longest sit-in ever at a U.S. federal building.

Equally importantly, Heumann helped change the narrative about disability, showing that the true burden of disabilities is how others respond to it: "Disability only becomes a tragedy when society fails to provide the things we need to lead our lives — job opportunities or barrier-free buildings, for example," she once said. "It is not a tragedy to me that I'm living in a wheelchair."

In the days before the ADA, Heumann was refused admission to public school because she was a "fire hazard" and offered two hours a week of in-home instruction instead. In 1970, she took the New York Department of Education to court after they refused to give her a teacher's license, citing their belief that she would not be able to evacuate her classroom in an emergency.

After the passage of the ADA in 1990, Heumann served as the U.S. assistant secretary of education, and took her advocacy global, traveling to more than 30 countries as they passed their own disability rights legislation. Until her last days, she kept up her fight for equality, noting how much progress still needs to be made. "Change never happens at the pace we think it should," she once wrote. "Gradually, excruciatingly slowly, things start to happen, and then suddenly, seemingly out of the blue, something will tip."

Her incredible story is told in a captivating picture book biography "Fighting for YES! The Story of Disability Rights Activist Judith Heumann" for ages 6 to 9 at https://www.amightygirl.com/fighting-for-yes

Judith Heumann was also the author of a powerful memoir for adult readers, "Being Heumann: An Unrepentant Memoir of a Disability Rights Activist" at https://www.amightygirl.com/being-heumann

Her memoir was adapted into a young readers edition, "Rolling Warrior: The Incredible, Sometimes Awkward, True Story of a Girl on Wheels Who Helped Spark a Revolution" for ages 10 and up at https://www.amightygirl.com/rolling-warrior

For more books for children and teens starring Mighty Girls with disabilities of all varieties, visit our blog post "Many Ways To Be Mighty: 35 Books Starring Mighty Girls with Disabilities" at https://www.amightygirl.com/blog?p=12992

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12/22/2025

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Empathy so simply explained. Morgan Harper Nichols
12/21/2025

Empathy so simply explained. Morgan Harper Nichols

Love this. Take note of  your needs and make sure you take time to focus on you this Winter! Thank you  Positively Prese...
12/21/2025

Love this. Take note of your needs and make sure you take time to focus on you this Winter! Thank you Positively Present for this image!

Thank you Josh Shipp for sharing your story and providing hope and healing to so many families.
12/21/2025

Thank you Josh Shipp for sharing your story and providing hope and healing to so many families.

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