10/13/2026
Have you ever had one of those days when you spend so much time answering questions and approving things that you never get to the work you actually planned to do?
A manager needs your opinion. Someone wants approval before responding to a client. Another employee needs to know whether they can make a small change. Before you know it, half the day is gone, and you feel like everyone needs something from you.
Here's the question I want you to consider: Do they actually need you, or have we unintentionally taught them that every decision needs to come through us?
As business owners and leaders, it's easy to fall into that pattern. We know how we want things done, and sometimes answering the question ourselves feels faster than helping someone learn to make the decision. But when we do that over and over, we can create a team that is very good at asking permission and not nearly as confident making decisions.
That doesn't mean we should suddenly tell everyone to figure things out on their own. People need guidance, clear expectations, and an understanding of where their authority begins and ends.
But they also need the opportunity to use their judgment.
If we're always the person with the final answer, we're not just making ourselves busier. We may also be limiting our team's ability to grow.
Try this: The next time someone brings you a decision they could reasonably make, ask, “What do you think we should do, and why?”
You may find they already know the answer. They just haven't been given the confidence or permission to act on it.