Total Engagement Consulting by Kimer, Inc.

08/18/2026

I just published the second installment of my “Why Fear DEIB?” blog series. In Part 2 – I explain what the “E” – equity – really is and is not, and how it is different from equality. Treating everyone exactly the same is not equity, and frankly does not work. Link to blog: https://www.totalengagementconsulting.com/blog/2026/08/why-fear-deib-part-2-explaining-the-e-equity/

08/10/2026

I just published a new blog to begin a series on DEIB – Diversity, Equity, Inclusion and Belonging. Given the politicalization of diversity leading to many gross misunderstandings, please read and share “Why Fear DEIB? It Includes Everyone! Part 1.

Why Fear DEIB? It includes Everyone! Part 1 Posted on August 10, 2026 by Stan A diverse team can bring different perspectives to the discussion resulting in a better overall result. Why is there this continued strong backlash against DEIB (Diversity, Equity, Inclusion and Belonging)? Why are some pe...

07/25/2026

As many of you know, I have established a community non-profit in the medium size city of Mtito-Andei, Kenya. I just updated the website page on this work with a photo collage and the work we have done since the beginning of the year. Please do read, share and consider supporting this inclusive work. https://www.totalengagementconsulting.com/blog/latest-updates-kimer-kamba-vocational-center/

07/23/2026

I just published a new blog titled “Jim Crow is Returning to North Carolina” about the Republican dominated legislature doing all they can to make it more difficult for our Black citizens (and now also college student) to vote. I also call on all North Carolinians who claim to be Christians and/or believe in true democracy to keep this in mind when they vote. LINK: https://www.totalengagementconsulting.com/blog/2026/07/jim-crow-is-returning-to-north-carolina/

06/08/2026

Please read and share my latest provocative blog written through my lens of being a diversity consultant and a coin collector (numismatist) … “King Trump – Destroying the rich history and diversity of American currency.” LINK:

King Trump – Destroying the rich history and diversity of American currency Posted on June 8, 2026 by Stan King Trump’s signature will soon be appearing on our $1 bill. As a DEIB (diversity, equity, inclusion and belonging) consultant who is also a numismatist (a collector of money,) I have writ...

05/31/2026

As the board chair of Other Sheep (a nonprofit with the mission of promoting inclusion of LGBTQ+ people in churches outside of the US and Europe), we officially relaunched the ministry last week with a press release highlighting our new Global Coordinator and our upcoming Pride Month devotional series.

/PRNewswire/ -- Other Sheep, an innovative worldwide ecumenical Christian organization dedicated to partnering with and advocating for sexual minorities...

05/14/2026

Another recent news item inspired me to write another blog about a US Congresswoman from North Carolina who attacked a young kid and his teacher for simply sharing an idea. Please read and share, “US Representative Virginia Foxx – a horrendous example of poor leadership.” LINK:

US Representative Virginia Foxx – A horrendous example of poor leadership Posted on May 14, 2026 by Stan US Congresswoman Virginia Foxx of NC’s 5th Congressional District Christian Mango, a 10-year-old from Greensboro, North Carolina, recently wrote a letter to his Congresswoman, suggesting a $5...

04/18/2026

I just published a new blog, “I am sick and tired of being demonized.” I write about how the North Carolina Republican-dominated legislature is wasting time over one parent’s complaint about LGBTQ-themed books in a school library. Then I continue to discuss many of the divisive and nasty anti-LGBTQ+ laws are being passed by other state legislatures, and why it is important to focus on this when you vote. Link to blog:

I am sick and tired of being demonized Posted on April 18, 2026 by Stan What is so wrong about this adorable book about one kind of American family? I am just sick of it. And here we go again. The North Carolina Republican-dominated legislature has called in the superintendent of the Chapel Hill –...

01/19/2026

It's been awhile, but I have added an update on my website about progress over the past several months with my community work in Mtito Andei, Kenya.

Latest Updates on the Kimer-Kamba Cultural Center Link to an introduction to the work in Mtito Andei, Kenya. Early 2026 Update: The ongoing work of the Kimer-Kamba Center, Mtito Andei, Kenya Wow – I did not realize that I have not provided an update in over 8 months! Yes, collaborative work contin...

11/14/2025

Now that I am almost totally retired, I write new blogs few and far between ... published this today ... discussing that when their are strong feelings on both sides of an issue, a leader should still do the right thing.

Doing the Right Thing Posted on November 14, 2025 by Stan Newly elected Wake Forest, NC Mayor Ben Clapsaddle (pictured with his wife Nancy) is a 30-year Army Veteran who is a great ally to the LGBTQ+ community In this year’s current November elections, 6-term incumbent Wake Forest, North Carolina ...