10/08/2026
When you start missing your ex, ask yourself these questions:
•What did you build together?
•Did you correct mistakes together or did patterns just keep repeating themselves?
•How did they encourage you to grow?
•Were they a considerate helpmate?
•Did they make you a better person?
•Did they inspire you? What great qualities did they possess that you lacked? Could you learn from them? Did you look up to them?
•If they had children or if you have children together: do you admire the way they love, nurture, and lead the children?
•Did they fill you up or drain you?
•Were some of the best moments of your life shared with them or do you have yet to make the best moments of your life happen?
•If you had to spend the same amount of time you did in that relationship with them again ... would you live a better quality life & be excited/elated to try again or would you be disappointed and unhappy because you know it would never work and you've seen the results of your love shared?
