05/29/2026
There is a note in my calendar right now, sitting on this last week of school, and it is in all caps. DO NOT PLAN ANYTHING EXTRA. I wrote it years ago, to myself, for exactly this week.
Because I know what the last week of school is. The concerts and the awards and the early dismissals and the three things that get sprung on me with one day’s notice.
None of it fits in a normal week, and for the first couple years my kids were in school, I used to try to make it fit anyway, on top of a full business week.
So now past me warns future me. The note shows up, I keep the week open on purpose, and I stop pretending I have capacity I do not have. That one habit has saved me more stress than almost anything else I do in my business.
Here is the thing I want you to hear. When you drop a ball during a week like this, you did not fail. You were carrying more than any one person can hold. That is not a willpower problem, it is a capacity problem, and you can plan for it.
I have always been a systems person, and when chronic illness made it non-negotiable, I leaned all the way in. I call the practice notes to future me, and I walk through the whole thing in this week’s episode, including the monthly reset I run on the first Monday of every month.
Go listen, then write one note to future you before you close the app.