09/04/2026
๐๐๐ธ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐ต๐ฒ๐น๐ฝ ๐ถ๐๐ป'๐ ๐ฎ ๐๐ถ๐ด๐ป ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ป'๐ ๐ฑ๐ผ ๐๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ๐๐ฒ๐น๐ณ.
I loved this article by Angela Duckworth.
She studies successful people and found something they have in common:
๐ฆ๐๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ฒ๐๐๐ณ๐๐น ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ผ๐ฝ๐น๐ฒ ๐ฎ๐๐ธ ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐ต๐ฒ๐น๐ฝ.
That really resonated with me.
I've worked with business owners for decades, and one of the things I've seen repeatedly is how easy it is for an owner to become the person who does everything.
They know how everything works.
They make all the decisions.
They solve all the problems.
And, very often, they're the only person who knows how to do some of the things that keep the business running.
There's a certain amount of pride that comes with being able to say, "I'll take care of it."
๐๐๐ ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ฎ๐ฏ๐น๐ฒ ๐๐ผ ๐ฑ๐ผ ๐ถ๐ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ๐๐ฒ๐น๐ณ ๐ฑ๐ผ๐ฒ๐๐ป'๐ ๐ป๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ฒ๐๐๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ถ๐น๐ ๐บ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ป ๐๐ผ๐ ๐๐ต๐ผ๐๐น๐ฑ.
One of the examples in the article is Nicolai Tangen, CEO of the world's largest sovereign wealth fund. He talks about the importance of his assistant, Grete Starheim. He trusts her enough to speak on his behalf and, just as importantly, to tell him when he's wrong.
I think that's an important part of asking for help that sometimes gets overlooked.
๐ง๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ด๐ต๐ ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ผ๐ฝ๐น๐ฒ ๐ฑ๐ผ๐ป'๐ ๐ท๐๐๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ธ๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐ธ ๐ผ๐ณ๐ณ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ฝ๐น๐ฎ๐๐ฒ. ๐ง๐ต๐ฒ๐ ๐ฏ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ธ๐ป๐ผ๐๐น๐ฒ๐ฑ๐ด๐ฒ, ๐ฒ๐
๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ฒ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐บ๐ฎ๐ ๐ป๐ผ๐ ๐ต๐ฎ๐๐ฒ.
I've built businesses. I've sold a business. I've consulted with business owners for years.
And I've never seen a successful business where one person really did it all alone.
Knowing what you do well matters.
๐๐ป๐ผ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ป ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ป๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ๐ผ๐ป๐ฒ ๐ฒ๐น๐๐ฒ ๐บ๐ฎ๐ ๐บ๐ฎ๐๐๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐ท๐๐๐ ๐ฎ๐ ๐บ๐๐ฐ๐ต.
This is well worth reading:
https://www.nytimes.com/2026/08/28/opinion/successful-people-help.html?unlocked_article_code=1.-lA.n-4F.sKQ31ZRKVnYw&smid=url-share
Being a successful self-starter doesnโt mean pulling yourself up by your bootstraps.