10/09/2026
Most leadership struggles aren’t a skills gap—they’re an autopilot problem! 🧠⚡
Why do so many high achievers keep running into the same stress patterns and team friction? In my latest episode, we dive deep into what’s really driving our behavior under pressure: our internal operating system.
I share some personal stories—from my early years in Flint, Michigan, to a wake-up call stranded on the side of the road near Carmel, California with almost nothing left. It’s a candid look at choice, humility, and what happens when we stop pretending "I'm fine."
We cover:
👉 Why your biggest strength can turn into your kryptonite
👉 How birth order and past patterns shape how you lead under stress
👉 Why true leadership development is continuous sharpening, not a one-and-done fix
👉 How to lead yourself first so you can build a stronger, healthier team culture
Hit play below to watch the full episode! 👇
📺 Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gzcmmRi5ZBs&list=PLqf546uEem0gx_ZRiexRXtZnnuieIucnD
📚 Go Deeper:
• Pick up my book, Lead Yourself First, on Amazon!
• Download the free Lead Yourself First Playbook at upgradeyourleadership.com
• Visit maysleadership.com to learn more about working together.
Drop a comment below and let me know: What is one leadership pattern you’re working to rewrite right now? Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share this with a fellow leader who’s ready to grow! 🚀
Most leadership struggles aren’t a skills gap, they’re an autopilot...