06/11/2026
I don’t know how true this is of kids being raised today, but when I was growing up the whole Dr Spock way of raising kids was only just starting to take hold, and I’d say that I was lucky to catch the tail end of the point in American culture where kids were expected to work and do things. Most notably for me, was when I was on the truck in the summers with my dad.
Even as a six year old, when we were doing household jobs, I was expected to roll up straps, sweep the floor in the trailer throughout the day, and fold pads if we were doing deliveries. The straps had to be rolled tight and the pads all had to have their seams and stitch patterns lined up. I learned not to just sweep the dust and wood chips off the back of the truck and into the street because that would make the problem the shipper’s, not our’s. I was apart of the crew so my shirt had to be tucked in, and I had to look professional. From 5-9 this was how I spent my summer break from elementary school.
Don’t get the wrong idea-I LOVED being on the truck. We were moving for weeks at time, criss-crossing the country seeing new places, meeting new people and learning about the different parts and pieces of the economy that truck drivers kept alive. I look back on that and realize that I gained a lot from those experiences, but more than anything, I was being prepared for being an adult. I knew how to work and contribute and produce before I was out of elementary school.
I also learned what it was like to be around men who earned their living off their own physical strength and endurance, and what it took to survive amongst them. I learned about the teasing and testing that comes with jobs in blue collar trades before I was even in high school and as confusing and uncomfortable as it was at times, I learned to hang, and to understand that it felt good to have earned someone’s respect, that you yourself respected.
I hope I’m wrong, but it seems like there’s less of that in the world today. Maybe it was already on its way out when I was experiencing it. Like I said, I hope I’m wrong, but even if I am, I think it’s also something that can always be brought back.