03/15/2025
In my worldview, there are few things that measure up to the overwhelming power of a tragically groomed and abused woman who overcomes the personal pain, suffering, stigmatization, and oppression that comes from a “controlling, power-crazed narcissist.”(https://www.victoriaellen.co/)
In my interview with Victoria, I found an intense and powerful woman who set her sights on overcoming abuse, reclaiming her voice, and discovering an unshakable strength. At the heart of her journey was her fierce love for her children: a love so boundless that it pushed her to break free from the suffocating grip of a toxic, abusive marriage. Through this, she reclaimed not just her children’s safety but her own agency—her ability to choose her own path. As she peeled back the layers of lies, deceit, and fraud her ex-husband built his life upon, Victoria stepped into a battle she had no idea would be as intense and life-changing as it turned out to be for her and her children--a battle for truth, justice, and dignity.
In this interview, Victoria pulls no punches in revealing the often hidden and devastating realities of domestic abuse, but it also sheds light on the obstacles victims face in a system that is often ill-equipped to support them. Victoria’s resilience was fueled by unwavering faith and determination, and became a force that no setback could stop. Victoria’s interview shows us that her self-reclamation is a testament to her power of persistence. And her book title itself is a beautiful metaphor: even when life pours down its darkest storms, we have the power to create something meaningful, something empowering, out of the mess. Through this episode, Victoria shows us all that resilience, faith, and truth are the ultimate forces of transformation.
You can buy her book, Painting in the Rain: A True Story of Trickery and Triumph on Amazon. Just go to the Amazon website and enter Victoria Ellen in the search bar. Or go to:
https://a.co/d/7Ynu7OI
I encourage you to buy and read this amazing story!
Hear Victoria's episode here:
https://dts.podtrac.com/.../sexassaultsur.../Episode_123.mp3