10/15/2026
You reworded your prospect's email reply to sound expert. They read otherwise.
Great! Your prospect (finally) wrote back.
And they told you their problem in their own plain words.
"I'm way behind on my books."
So what do most of us do with that?
We translate it.
"Sounds like you need a bookkeeping cleanup engagement."
It feels more professional, doesn't it?
It isn't. It's a small step away from them.
Think about the last time a plumber looked at your dripping faucet.
You said, "It drips."
They said, "You've got a failing cartridge assembly."
Did you feel understood? Or did you feel a bill coming?
(Me too.)
Here's what's going on.
Their words are how the problem feels to them.
Your words are how the problem looks to you.
When you swap theirs for yours, you tell them something you never meant to say.
"I filed you under a category."
So don't translate. Repeat.
If they said "behind on my books," you say "behind on your books."
If they said "retire on time," you say "retire on time."
Not "retirement readiness."
Like this:
"Being behind on your books happens to a lot of good business owners. How far behind are we talking? A few months, or more like a year?"
Same problem. Their label.
It costs you nothing.
And it tells them the one thing they want to know before they say anything else.
That you listened.
Their words are only one part of a good answer. My new blog article shows you the rest, with examples you can borrow.
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