07/14/2024
New essay drop
In 1993 Kimberly Crenshaw coined the term “intersectionality” as a way to help us understand the complicated situatedness that we all experience as individuals. The more power and privilege you have the less complicating the web of identities is for you. What I really desperately needed when I first put my butt down to meditate was permission to sit there in my intersection.
As I sit and meditate I sit in the intersection of all the identities and roles, all the selfs I contain. If I want to learn to meditate (or to do anything for that matter) I generally have to pick up one of my identities as a thread to follow. This identity/thread becomes a line on a map that takes me to a certain place. For example, I practice yoga, such that it is part of my identity. I could follow that identity/thread to learn to meditate at a yoga studio, and be taught as a yoga student. Perhaps that meditation paradigm doesn’t work well for the other giant net of identity/threads that I normally sit in, my intersection. So, do I abandon those parts of myself to meditate as a yogi? If I decided instead to meditate with a women’s group, I am generally presented with a pre-formed concept of what it means to be a woman that holds well enough for the group and again have to figure out on my own whether the rest of my identity/threads can use this approach.
In the full essay I share how this impacted my meditation practice and how we can use this information to meet ourselves where we are.
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Carli White is a meditator, Dharma practitioner, philosopher, and oddly also a business and marketing consultant.