04/02/2021
Pandemic Conversations Worth Having
The pandemic is the catalyst for many family conversations about health, finance, and the eventuality of some form of caregiving. In American culture "caregiving" often carries the specter of burden or unwanted responsibilities, which in fact negate two powerful words, care and giving. For most of us who are socially engaged with families, neighbors, and coworkers we are caregivers. Mindful of our actions and words that affect how we navigate relationships.
From the moment you wake up if you live with someone you decide whether to care or help. Do you take out the trash? Make a shopping list? That is a form of caregiving. Heading out the door in your neighborhood. Do you carefully drive to avoid small children or the cat next door? That too is a form of caregiving. Now, whether you log on or swipe to enter your workplace how do you greet your colleague? "Hey young fella or Bill, it's good to see you?" Again, these are forms of caregiving. The actions and languages you practice are all part of caregiving. It's all about the perspective in which you choose to move forward post pandemic.
Going forward, I call on families lift the veil on conversations once considered too personal. Pre existing conditions, financial decisions, and how to best help family members and close friends.
Judi Bonilla, Aging Expert is an aging expert, speaker, and author. She's the Director of Program Innovation at Advocates For Aging, and the social media strategist at Best Social Media Lounge providing products and services for age 50 plus market.
For more resources on the art of caring about aging and caregiving follow my colleagues:
⭐ Amy Goyer, Family Caregiving Expert
⭐ Daughterhood San Diego
⭐ Senior Shower Project
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