04/06/2026
HERE GOES! I’m almost 40 and a bit embarrassed to admit…
1️⃣ I’ve felt like a “kid” for so long. And I’ve only just started to feel like an “adult” in the last month. It feels like something might actually be clicking, and I’m moving with more stability in my decisions.
2️⃣ I don’t feel like I have my s**t together. Not in the polished, “everything is handled” way I thought I would by this age… more like I’m figuring it out in real time, one decision at a time.
3️⃣ I grew up thinking I’d have kids by now. But I’ve never felt that deep, undeniable urge other women talk about, and for a long time that made me question myself.
4️⃣ I’ve never been married. Not because I didn’t want love, but because I haven’t found something that felt right enough to choose forever.
5️⃣ I’ve never been engaged. No almost-weddings, no big moments like that… just a path that’s looked very different than what I imagined growing up.
6️⃣ I want to find my person more than anything. Not from a place of pressure, but from a genuine desire to build a life with someone who feels like home.
7️⃣ I still experience some pretty intense imposter syndrome in my business. Even with experience, even with results… there are still moments where I wonder if I’m actually as good as people expect me to be.
But here’s what I’m learning…
I believe what’s meant for me will never miss me.
I believe everything happens for a reason.
And when I’m in doubt, I ask myself one question:
“how is this perfect?”
If you’ve ever felt behind, out of sync, or like you’re the only one figuring it out as you go… you’re not alone 🤍