09/30/2026
Five phrases that quietly cost you patients. And what to say instead.
1. "That's not my job."
The patient hears: you called the wrong person and now it's your problem.
Say instead: "That's handled by Maria β let me connect you with her."
2. "Just wait."
No context, no timeline. It reads as "your time is worth less than mine."
Say instead: "I need to check on that for you. It should take about two or three minutes."
3. "I don't know."
Not wrong. Just unfinished. Ending the sentence there strands the patient.
Say instead: "I don't know, but I'm going to find out for you. Give me one moment."
4. "We can't, because [insert internal problem]."
Your system issue is not the patient's burden to carry.
Say instead: lead with what you can do. "Here's what I can do for you right now."
5. Cutting them off.
Even when you already know the answer. Especially then.
Say instead: let them finish. Then: "I hear you on the billing statement. Here's what I can do."
None of these are about being nicer. They are about not handing the patient a dead end.
Print this. Tape it next to the phone.
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