08/19/2017
Holding onto things because you think your children or grandchildren will want them? Have honest conversations with your loved ones now about what they'd truly like to inherit; you may be surprised by what's really meaningful for them to keep. Then challenge yourself to find new homes for the rest.
One couple profiled in this story opted to donate many of their possessions when they downsized and realized their adult children wanted only a small handful of the items the parents had kept.
“'By donating [the rest of the items] to charity, I knew they weren’t going to go into a Dumpster and that someone who really wanted them would purchase them,' [Mrs. Bluhm] said. Though the items are no longer hers, she said, many of her familiar household objects are not altogether gone.
'What I had left were the memories attached to them, in my heart and in my head,' Mrs. Bluhm said."
How to dispose of a lifetime of memories and keepsakes? These days, it pays to ask a professional, not your heirs.