Amador Matchmaking

06/16/2026

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There's a big difference between settling for someone and settling on someone. One means accepting less than you deserve — the other means choosing your person and building something real together. Stop chasing sparks and start building your fire. 🔥

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06/11/2026

"There just wasn't any chemisty".
How many times have you said that after just meeting someone?

One of the biggest dating mistakes? Comparison shopping for chemistry.
You meet someone great, but instead of asking, "How do I feel with this person?" you're wondering, "Is there someone more exciting out there?"

Chemistry isn't a leaderboard. The butterflies from one date and the comfort of another are different experiences—not better or worse. Ok...maybe sometimes worse. But really... how many times have you said "no chemistry" without really seeing what they are about.

He's a shorter then you'd like. Or, she's not as sporty/athletic as he wants.
It's easy to keep jumping from first date to first date. When you constantly compare, no one gets a fair chance, including you.

Stop shopping for the biggest spark. Start noticing who makes you feel seen, safe, and genuinely connected.

06/10/2026

Most people searching for a partner are doing it completely alone.

No strategy. No feedback loop. No one in their corner who actually knows them.

At Amador Matchmaking, we work differently. We act as your personal guide — learning who you are, who you're truly compatible with, and making curated introductions that respect your time.

Our founder Lisa Amador built this company on one belief: that finding the right person deserves the same care and expertise as any other major life decision.

If you're ready to stop searching and start being guided — we'd love to talk.

Visit amadormatchmaking.com

06/09/2026

You probably wouldn't buy a house without a broker, you probably wouldn't go to court without an attorney, why wouldn't you use a professional matchmaking team to help with one of the most important decisions in your life?

You didn't sign up for endless swiping. You signed up to find your person. But somewhere along the way, dating started feeling like a second job—exhausting, frustrating, and lonely.

Amador Matchmaking can help you find someone special. Call us today!

05/29/2026

I hear these every single day. And every single one of them is a lie you've been carrying around like it's fact. Any of these hit home for you?

Have you struggled with even starting to get out there and date?
I've put hundreds of people in long term relationships.

DM me and let's talk about what's holding you back.

05/27/2026

Hey Guys!!
Here's something worth asking yourself:
Are you meeting the kind of women you'd actually want to date by doing what you're currently doing?
If the answer is no, that's not a failure. It's just information.
Sometimes the smartest thing you can do is put yourself in a different room.

Modern Dating, Real Connection — Singles 50+
University Club of Santa Barbara
📅 June 3 at 6 PM

About 50 relationship-minded singles. An honest conversation led by matchmaker Lisa Amador. Relaxed introductions to help you connect with new people naturally.

The women have already signed up. The opportunity is here.

Register at uclubsb.eventbrite.com

05/19/2026

05/19/2026

Join singles 50+ for an evening of connection, a talk on modern dating, and fun activities like Meet My Friend. Find real connections!
Get ticket at uclubsb.eventbrite.com

05/16/2026

Modern Dating, Real Connection: An Evening for Singles 50+

Join us at the University Club of Santa Barbara for a fun and thoughtful evening designed for singles 50+ who are ready to connect in real life.

The evening will feature a short talk on the challenges of modern dating, followed by Meet My Friend — a playful way to introduce a great single friend — plus relaxed mingling in a welcoming setting.

Includes beverages and light bites

Wednesday, June 3
6:00 PM
University Club of Santa Barbara

If you have a friend you’d like to hype as a great single person someone should meet, contact [email protected]

Spaces are limited — register now to secure your spot:
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1989709883824?aff=oddtdtcreator

05/09/2026

One simple dating truth:

If someone genuinely likes you and is emotionally available for a relationship, you usually will not have to spend all your energy decoding their behavior.

That does not mean everything will be perfect or instantly defined. But consistent confusion, mixed signals, and vague effort are usually not signs of alignment.

The right connection should feel respectful, mutual, and increasingly clear over time.