Amador Matchmaking

05/29/2026

I hear these every single day. And every single one of them is a lie you've been carrying around like it's fact. Any of these hit home for you?

Have you struggled with even starting to get out there and date?
I've put hundreds of people in long term relationships.

DM me and let's talk about what's holding you back.

05/27/2026

Hey Guys!!
Here's something worth asking yourself:
Are you meeting the kind of women you'd actually want to date by doing what you're currently doing?
If the answer is no, that's not a failure. It's just information.
Sometimes the smartest thing you can do is put yourself in a different room.

Modern Dating, Real Connection — Singles 50+
University Club of Santa Barbara
📅 June 3 at 6 PM

About 50 relationship-minded singles. An honest conversation led by matchmaker Lisa Amador. Relaxed introductions to help you connect with new people naturally.

The women have already signed up. The opportunity is here.

Register at uclubsb.eventbrite.com

05/19/2026

05/19/2026

Join singles 50+ for an evening of connection, a talk on modern dating, and fun activities like Meet My Friend. Find real connections!
Get ticket at uclubsb.eventbrite.com

05/16/2026

Modern Dating, Real Connection: An Evening for Singles 50+

Join us at the University Club of Santa Barbara for a fun and thoughtful evening designed for singles 50+ who are ready to connect in real life.

The evening will feature a short talk on the challenges of modern dating, followed by Meet My Friend — a playful way to introduce a great single friend — plus relaxed mingling in a welcoming setting.

Includes beverages and light bites

Wednesday, June 3
6:00 PM
University Club of Santa Barbara

If you have a friend you’d like to hype as a great single person someone should meet, contact [email protected]

Spaces are limited — register now to secure your spot:
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1989709883824?aff=oddtdtcreator

05/09/2026

One simple dating truth:

If someone genuinely likes you and is emotionally available for a relationship, you usually will not have to spend all your energy decoding their behavior.

That does not mean everything will be perfect or instantly defined. But consistent confusion, mixed signals, and vague effort are usually not signs of alignment.

The right connection should feel respectful, mutual, and increasingly clear over time.

05/08/2026

What part of dating feels most difficult right now?

For some people it's meeting quality people. For others it's confidence, communication, reading signals, or knowing how to pace early dating.

As a matchmaker and dating coach, Lisa sees how common these struggles really are — and naming the challenge is often the first step in changing it.

Tell us what feels hardest for you right now.

04/26/2026

Private matchmaking is not just for one “type” of person.

It is often the right fit for:
Busy professionals
Singles over 40
Divorced individuals re-entering the dating world
People who feel discouraged by dating apps
Relationship-minded singles who want a more intentional process
At Amador Matchmaking, we provide a personalized approach designed to help clients make higher-quality connections with real potential.

If that sounds like what you’ve been looking for, learn more at amadormatchmaking.com.

04/25/2026

After more than 15 years as a professional matchmaker and dating coach, Lisa has seen one truth over and over again:

Many wonderful, relationship-ready people are not struggling because they lack value. They are struggling because modern dating often makes it hard for the right people to find one another.

That belief is at the heart of Amador Matchmaking.

We are proud to continue serving our established community in Santa Barbara while growing in San Diego, and we look forward to helping more singles connect in a meaningful, personalized way.

If you’ve been curious about private matchmaking, visit amadormatchmaking.com and let's start the conversation.

04/23/2026

We’d love your honest opinion:

When you go on a first date, what matters most?

Instant chemistry
Great conversation
Shared values
Feeling comfortable and respected
One thing we’ve learned over the years is that many lasting relationships don’t necessarily begin with dramatic sparks.
Often, they begin with comfort, consistency, and genuine interest.

Tell us what makes you want to see someone again.