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Maryse L Postlewaite, TLC Pathways Leading workshops to strengthen Team building, Leadership, and Conflict resolution. Nurturing compassionate relationships. Available on video platforms.

While on a favorite walk, I paused for a moment in awe of a favorite ancient oak tree. It was awful. I’m referring to th...
10/16/2026

While on a favorite walk, I paused for a moment in awe of a favorite ancient oak tree. It was awful. I’m referring to the original meaning of awful, “full of awe” inspiring and wonder reverence.
In returning home, I enjoyed time to peruse photos of trees, bugs, and flowers; reminding myself of many moments of awe. I also learned that the root origins of the word peruse is to read something carefully. (Attached is a small collection of “awful” photos.)

This curiosity about the complete change of the meaning of words we used broadened for me when I learned that atone originally meant to be “at one”, not its current meaning to make amends.

Words matter! What words are you curious about?
Join me to learn more about experiences to explore communication and perspective during the next live October 22 at 5:00pm: safetypowers.org/pathways Kidpower

Are you at the helm of a rowboat or a canoe? Do you look back to move forward as in a rowboat or do you look forward as ...
10/09/2026

Are you at the helm of a rowboat or a canoe? Do you look back to move forward as in a rowboat or do you look forward as you paddle in a canoe?

We can move forward in looking back; learn from our experiences and welcome fresh understandings. Our perspective makes the difference. (The evolution of phones provides a quick glance of changes.)

Keep the treasures of traditions and release the baggage of problematic patterns.
Whichever metaphor of the new and old appeals to you, I invite you to reflect on which parts of your past benefits your potential for a favorable future and which parts to let go of.

Learn more about perspectives during our next live session on October 22 at 5:00pm PT. Enroll here: safetypowers.org/pathways for the self-paced on-line course with teaching videos, role plays, and engaging discussion topics. Kidpower

September 21 is the International Day of Peace. It was established by the United Nations 45 years ago. Worldwide, nation...
09/21/2026

September 21 is the International Day of Peace. It was established by the United Nations 45 years ago. Worldwide, nations are encouraged to respect a cease fire for 24 hours and a minute of silence at Noon time. (The photo of the white dove is the primary symbol for this day.)

Dr. Montessori was nominated 3 times for the Nobel Peace Prize. She was a peace advocate and the ripples of her influence expand to the many families who have incorporated her ideas into their lives.

Montessorians from around the world have gathered virtually to discuss how we promote peace in our communities. I’m grateful for my roots in Montessori training, 45 years ago and for my Kidpower roots from 37 years ago.

I reflect on how I lead with peace in my everyday interactions.

A day dedicated to peace inspires us to strengthen our commitment to a more peaceful world. Our actions of today make a difference for the future, beyond our lifetimes. Our global community needs us. How do you see yourself fostering peace?

Are you bilingual or multilingual? Have you had the opportunity to translate for others? I was recently asked by to rev...
09/19/2026

Are you bilingual or multilingual? Have you had the opportunity to translate for others? I was recently asked by to review the translation of a flyer on breath-work. Through our exchange, I tapped into the richness of the American-English language and the wealth of words at our disposal to specifically convey our feelings.

This Sunday, the 20th, I’ve been asked to a French speakers, breakout room for an event hosted by several international Montessori groups, including -EAA. This is in celebration of International Day of Peace on September 21, 2026.

I am grateful for these occasions.They remind me of the gift from my parents and ancestors. My parents insisted that we speak French at home. Although I didn’t appreciate then the many doors that opened for me, I do now. My interest in words and how they reflect culture stems from my lived experiences.

What is your interest in words and the complexity of language? How has this influenced your communication style?

In the course of a conversation, have you ever found yourself discovering a new realization? There is a extraordinary an...
09/04/2026

In the course of a conversation, have you ever found yourself discovering a new realization? There is a extraordinary and profound power in conversations. Revelations and insights can be rewarding. This is because our brains are activated to sequence high speed thoughts. It also decreases mental jumble.

Talking out loud to yourself has its positive effects also.
Research indicates, “One’s own voice undergoes unique processing that distinguishes it from others’ voices, and thus listening to it may have a special neural basis for self-talk as an emotion regulation strategy.” (https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11274574/ -brainsci-14-00637)

Communication is our topic for the next live session on September 24 at 5:00pm Pacific time.

We will dive deep into skills and practice to bring ease to difficult conversations, to feature effective ways to listen, and to implement positive approaches.

Enrollment is open. Check it out: safetypowers.org/pathways
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Have you ever thought you'd built trust with someone only to realize you hadn't? Or found yourself in a conversation whe...
08/25/2026

Have you ever thought you'd built trust with someone only to realize you hadn't? Or found yourself in a conversation where someone made an assumption about you that wasn't true? It doesn't have to be that way.

Instead of assuming trust exists, we can learn how to build it. Building rapport builds trust. No matter where you live, your background, or your daily environment, there are simple, practical ways to open the door.

Join interactive, engaging activities that show how getting to know someone helps build trust.

Explore these ideas more deeply in our next live session, Thursday, August 27th at 5 p.m. Enrollment is open at safetypowers.org/pathways Kidpower

If I really knew you, what would I know about you? This question refers to one of the many opportunities in the first mo...
08/17/2026

If I really knew you, what would I know about you? This question refers to one of the many opportunities in the first module in the Conflict Resolution Fundamentals course.

Here’s what one recent participant said… “This activity reveals that we never truly finish getting to know others. Our observations are unique to us because there will always be more to learn. That's why …there's a palette of colors for every taste.”

This is a self-paced 8 hour course, with role play videos of realistic scenarios with applicable skills. Open enrollement.

In the live sessions, we dive deeper into the skills related to trust, perspective, communication, to name a few of the modules.

Coming soon: Drop-in rate to attend the live sessions on August 27 at 5:00pm PT. Learn more about the course here: safetypowers.org/pathways Kidpower

Claire and I offer valuable and practical approaches to conflict resolution in the workplace.I had the fortune to chat w...
08/08/2026

Claire and I offer valuable and practical approaches to conflict resolution in the workplace.

I had the fortune to chat with my good friend and colleague, Claire Laughlin.She asked me some tough questions, inviting me to give insights for how to handle some covert and overt conflicts.

Claire is masterful at listening and reflecting. She has led leadership workshop for decades. Collaborating with her is a joy.

Take a listen to our second podcast: How to Handle Conflict at Work with Maryse Postlewaite on
https://open.spotify.com/show/2oaLgW4gTVqU1KHmcKthAG?si=4e91e7410d054fd7&nd=1&dlsi=f4c3ef67125044a5

Kidpower Claire Laughlin

Have you found yourself in reaction mode when hearing some challenging news or hearing a negative comment? How about whe...
08/03/2026

Have you found yourself in reaction mode when hearing some challenging news or hearing a negative comment? How about when taken by surprise or something unexpected?

Conflicts can escalate easily from a reactionary response. I’ve been there.

I invite you to experience the benefits of asking for a pause. In a conflict, the amygdala can take over. With a pause, the thinking brain can be reactivated, giving opportunity to lead with our better selves.

This monarch chrysalis reminds me of the beauty experienced in a pause.

We don’t need permission to ask for a pause. We may need to practice so it becomes more natural. In Kidpower workshops, we begin with, “Excuse me.”

Here are some examples to follow:
“I want to be able to address this situation (or question). It would be best for me to takes some notes. Could you please wait for me to gather a pen and paper?”

“In order to give you a thoughtful answer, I need some time to think about this. Will that work for you?”

Do you have a way to ask for a pause when you need it?

When you look out at this horizon, is it dreary, calming, threatening, a respite from the usual heat?What does perspecti...
07/30/2026

When you look out at this horizon, is it dreary, calming, threatening, a respite from the usual heat?

What does perspective depend upon? So many factors, right?

Our perspective and lived experiences can differ. As a friend recently shared with me, “I’m not you, and you are not me.” Aptly stated. I’m reminded how thinking that everyone else thinks like me (false consensus effect) can be an obstacle. I have found that leading with questions from a place of curiosity is best.

How about you? How has false consensus affected you in your relationships?

P.S. Next week I’ll share the link to my second podcast Claire Laughlin Kidpower

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