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Modern Love Club Matchmaking + Love Coaching
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Start your 🧡 LOVE 🧡 journey here ⤵️
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Professional matchmaking, and love coaching service by day. East Village Art gallery run by Love at night.

10/14/2026

I’ve never believed the job of a matchmaker is to fulfill a wish list. Because I’ve come to believe that the person you’re imagining before you meet them is a theory. And the most extraordinary match is the person you would never have thought to ask for.

That’s a big part of what makes my approach to matchmaking different. I want to be a trusted advisor, not an employee executing specifications. To stay curious enough to challenge assumptions, perceptive enough to notice what someone actually needs, and open enough to imagine what love might look like beyond the familiar.

Twenty years in, I find myself more interested in matchmaking than ever. Maybe because I think we’re living through a genuinely fascinating moment for love—and we have an opportunity to rethink what partnership can be.

Thank you to The Feels for such a thoughtful conversation and for giving me the space to explore some of these bigger questions about love, matchmaking, and where we go from here. 🧡

If you’re curious about a more expansive approach to finding your person, enter the Modern Love Club rolodex.

We know men who are exceptionally good at building. They know how to set a goal, solve a problem, make a decision, take ...
10/13/2026

We know men who are exceptionally good at building. They know how to set a goal, solve a problem, make a decision, take a risk, and make something happen. And then they encounter love... where the usual rules stop working so neatly.

Intimacy asks for a different kind of intelligence.

The right partner doesn’t just fit into the life you’ve already built. The women we can match you with could introduce dimensions you might never have discovered alone. More play, perspective, beauty, challenge, tenderness, and possibility.

That’s one of the things I find most fascinating about matchmaking: helping people who are extraordinarily capable in the world become more open to what another person might make possible in them.

If you’re building an extraordinary life and want to find the person who can build alongside you, enter the Modern Love Club rolodex.

In the search for your person, you’re not just looking for someone to fit into the life you’ve built. You’re looking for...
10/04/2026

In the search for your person, you’re not just looking for someone to fit into the life you’ve built. You’re looking for someone who might change its shape.

What happens when two intelligent, curious, fully alive people begin shaping one another’s lives?

The people drawn to Modern Love Club are building things, making things, changing things. They are climbing their own mountains of fulfillment and looking for someone who wants to climb alongside them.

Someone with a life of their own.

Someone who can challenge you, delight you, steady you, and surprise you.

Modern Love Club is a community of intelligent, interesting, culture-changing people who believe partnership can be one of the great creative projects of a human life.

If that sounds like your kind of people, come find us.
Enter the Modern Love Club rolodex at the link in bio.

There are certain people you meet and immediately want to know more about. They’re accomplished, but there’s something e...
09/29/2026

There are certain people you meet and immediately want to know more about. They’re accomplished, but there’s something even deeper there.

A way of thinking.

A particular kind of curiosity.

A life that has been lived deliberately.

A body of work.

A point of view.

A warmth that doesn’t show up on a résumé.

After years of matchmaking, we’ve had the privilege of meeting women who are extraordinary not just for what they’ve achieved, but for how they move through the world. They’ve built companies, raised families, made art, invested in ideas, changed industries, started movements, taken enormous risks, reinvented themselves. And then you sit across from them at dinner and discover the part that could never have made it onto a dating profile.

That’s the kind of network we care about building: not a collection of impressive résumés, but a community of deeply interesting people.

If extraordinary women were a type, we’ve got them.

If you’re a man looking to meet women like these, come enter the Rolodex. ⚡️

09/24/2026

Long story, short? What began as a performance art piece in a NY park has become a 20-year experiment in human connection. Over the years, that experiment has taken many forms: a little sign offering free love advice, a storefront in New York, conversations with people from wildly different worlds, and eventually, matchmaking across cities and countries.

Each chapter has changed the way I understand this work.

The storefront gave me a window into the intimate lives of people living in one of the world’s most dynamic dating cultures. Traveling expanded that window. Different places reveal different ideas about love, partnership, family, ambition, and what a meaningful life can look like.

And the more people I meet, the more I’m reminded that there is no universal formula for connection. There are patterns, of course. But every person brings a particular history, a particular way of seeing the world, and a particular vision of what they hope to build with someone.

That’s what makes matchmaking endlessly fascinating to me. It’s not just about finding two people who look compatible on paper. Twenty years later, I’m still curious. Still asking questions. Still learning from the people I meet. The experiment continues. 🧡⚡️

Have you ever felt like “working on yourself” became a way of postponing actually living — or loving? We explore that te...
09/18/2026

Have you ever felt like “working on yourself” became a way of postponing actually living — or loving? We explore that tension at Modern Love Club.

Because modern romance asks us to do something self-improvement can never fully prepare us for:

Leave the laboratory.

Become someone in relation to someone else.

Enter the relationship.

And once you do, some of that carefully constructed self-knowledge is probably going to fall apart, just because another person has entered the equation. Who will likely misunderstand you at times. Surprise you. Disappoint you. Have needs you can’t optimize away. And they will inevitably bring you into parts of yourself that you couldn’t have discovered alone.

Because life and love are not personal development projects.

They are cultures we actively build together.

09/13/2026

Long before we had language for “compatibility,” we had cadence.

We walk, eat, and gather at certain hours. We move through daily rituals, follow seasonal patterns, synchronize our bodies in dance, work, celebration, and rest.

And in the midst of all that, there is something deeply regulating about moving through the world beside someone whose pace doesn’t require you to constantly adjust your own.

This doesn’t mean you need identical personalities, schedules, ambitions, or energy levels.

It’s more about an underlying rhythm between you.

People tend to make their partner their best friend, confidant, emotional security, social life, and primary source of b...
09/10/2026

People tend to make their partner their best friend, confidant, emotional security, social life, and primary source of belonging. And then, they wonder why dating can feel so high-stakes. The more we work with people one-on-one, the more interested we’ve become in what happens outside the romantic dyad.

What if part of becoming more secure, fulfilled, and available for love is building a life that already contains meaningful connection?

We’re exploring this question beyond matchmaking now: not only how we match people, but how we create the environments that allow people to connect, belong, and thrive.

That thinking is part of what inspired Casa Constelación in Mexico — a place designed around community as an essential part of a well-lived life. If this idea resonates with you, tell me.

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