10/22/2022
Highlight reel vs. highlight real - how much do you share on social media?
I had an interesting conversation with someone this week about what you should and shouldn’t share on social media when you want to ensure you’re being authentic.
This week was a really challenging one for me.
Aside from existing commitments, I found myself taking time away from being online and meeting with people. I needed the space.
When I met with my friend, she could immediately tell that something was “off” which led to our conversation about transparency and authenticity online.
While I think the answer is different for everyone, here are my thoughts I shared with her:
🛑 I think it’s inauthentic to make things appear better than they are or to blatantly lie about something, especially if it’s being done in order to sell something. That’s just manipulation and shady af - yuck!
But assuming positive intent, what do you share when you're having a challenging week or rough experience?
I think that's purely up to the individual but here is what feels right to me:
✅ I think it can be beneficial to share when things aren't always 🌈 + 🦄 - there is far too much highlight reel and unrealistic and unattainable expectations being set online
🤔 But I don’t think you need to share the intimate details of everything that doesn’t go well or that upsets you - personally or professionally
Those details are between you and the person / people and it's not in good taste to throw someone else under the bus.
🤔 I also don't think the things you share should be to elicit sympathy or stir up drama. At the end of the day, what you post is about your audience, not you, when you are posting to a business account.
So what do you share?
I love to look for the silver lining in every experience and share:
🔹 Lessons learned or takeaways
🔹 How you're working through it
🔹 How someone could avoid a similar experience
🔹 Perspective shifts due to the experience
I'd love to hear your thoughts on what to post and what not to.