06/21/2018
A question we received from a fan (long but worth the read to the end)...
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Hey Dawg Dates, I've been following this page for years and I'm a big fan. Could you please send this to your followers and keep me anonymous? I'm a guy in my mid-20s who graduated from UW just a few years ago. Last year, I made two and a half million dollars through personal investing (primarily via VERY early investments in altcoiin cryyptos) and retired from a career working at hedge funds and trillion+ dollar asset managers on Wall Street... my net worth is well into the 7 figures (I told most of my friends who ask me about my finances that I make $200K a year/have a $250K net worth as I try hard to appear poor to not attract gold diggers, scammers, hitmen, etc.). Also, I'm a self-made (my parents are blue-collar workers who make minimum wage) multi-millionaire. I live in a penthouse in Downtown Manhattan, NYC, where there is a 4 to 1 single girl to single guy ratio. I go to some of the most elite/preftigious fundraising galas and hottest/most exclusive nightclubs in the world. I have an awesome lifestyle and am well-travelled (I have unlimited mileage on a private jet membership plan... look it up, it's called JetSmarter--I highly recommend it). I believe in taking care of myself and a balanced diet and a rigorous exercise routine. I've been featured by various fashion magazines, blogs, and Instagram accounts for being one of the most stylish and hottest guys in the city (I was recently ranked by a very famous blogger as one of the top 10 hottest Asian guys in the city... although I prefer dating inter-racially/I like white girls). I've walked for top designers in New York Fashion Week and I'm signed to one of the top modeling agencies in the world. I'm regularly tagged on Instagram with A-list supermodels that have 8 figure follower counts each (you probably follow them even if you're not into fashion at all). I have no problem approaching girls, I have no approach anxiety at all and I'm VERY extroverted. I have thousands of friends (both male and female friends), and tens of thousands of followers and fans on social media. I regularly throw parties with models and bottles. Most people think I'm living a dream life and that I'd get a supermodel girlfriend. Yes, I constantly have girls sliding into my DMs (often 50+ a day) on the gram and have had upwards of 170 matches on dating sites in a day. But they always turn out to be fakes or flakes. Deep down, I just wish a girl would actually like me as more than a friend (I'm constantly friend zoned) and not be a fake or flake.
I've never been on a real date or had a girlfriend in my life. If I was to tell a friend this in real life, no one would believe me as my social media is constantly surrounded by models and some of the world's most attractive women (yes, my most recent Instagram photo was with the #1 hottest girl in the world/Maxim Hot 100 #1 who has a 8 figure following on Insta). But I'm around them for business (not dating) because I'm very into fashion myself and I've invested in a lot of up-and-coming designers and fashion corporations... so I get invited to these sort of events... unfortunately, I'm not dating these girls.
My prospects look so much better than when I was in the "Fck Your Life" city Seattle (as my New Yorker friend who also grew up in Seattle called Seattle) but even in the land of a 4-1 ratio (and parties with a 15-1 ratio), I still can't get a date.
What's it like to have a girlfriend? What does it feel like to have one? Am I just undateable? I'm officially closer to 30 than 18 and never been on a date (yes, I do ask girls out on dates... girls never ask me out on dates except as a joke).
What else can I do? My net worth and income is in the top 1% (top 0.01% for my age) of the USA, I live an ultra-extravagant jet-set lifestyle (and so would my future girlfriend if that ever happens), I'm extremely fit (I've competed in bodybuilding competitions and was a varsity athlete in high school), I'm a very well-connected and social guy (I party almost every night and during the day, I'm regularly networking with CEOs and hedge fund executives), and I'm considered extremely good looking (at least by modeling agencies and fashion designers... and my tens of thousands of followers). I'm well-traveled (over a dozen countries last year) and well-educated. People consider me a good person (I donated over $100K last year to charity).
But I can't get a single date... what else can I do? I feel like I checked the box on everything a girl would desire (but I know I can always improve).
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