11/28/2025
November began, wasn’t that just yesterday? And now it is almost time to change the calendar to December. I think it curious that paper photo calendars are still very much in demand with all the smart devices we have with integrated calendars. How trite to even think time flies yet it sort of does—whoosh—flip the calendar photo of the November turkey scene to a December fox running through a field white with snow. And suddenly we’re transformed into the end of the calendar year.
Each day, with its natural rhythm, comes up with the sun and goes to sleep with the early sunset. (Or if you’re a shift-worker, the opposite may be true.) While the natural rotation of the earth definitely has its commonalities there are days that get out of sync, lack planning, or despite planning end up wild and frenzied! My favorite days are those full of serendipity — just seize the moments for what they are and at the end of the day reflect on the wonder of it all.
I’m a planful person all year but especially from Halloween to Thanksgiving to New Year’s Day, I try to change up my planning but…
The winter holidays have their own unique rhythm and surprises. Even in our little southwest Iowa farm community, I’m stymied when searching the public library’s community calendar (http://Shenandoah.lib.ia.us/) and attempt to decide what event to attend, especially when some overlap on day or time. And these events are an addition to the routine commitments I have. It’s a marathon of sorts!
Yes, I enjoy the holidays—Christmas, Chanukah, Kwanza, etc. Some don’t and I accept that. But the lights, decor, cozy fireplace, music, baking, food, parties and special celebrations are all wonderful to me. Wrapping up in a comforting throw or sweater while sipping a hot beverage or toddy just says “ahhhh” to me. Admittedly, rearranging the indoors and outdoors with holiday lights and symbols of the holidays takes a lot of time and creates disarray for a time. Confessing to a measure of consternation, I am a person for whom mess is truly messy and “less is more.” I’m married to a wonderful guy who fancies Clark Griswold as his Christmas twin. I delight in his delight which makes all that disarray disappear.
Most of all I love the opportunity to get together with family, friends, neighbors—-community. The human in me loves the human in you. Remember this season that the gift of people in our lives is what makes a holiday. No matter your age, race, religion or values, sexual orientation, ethnicity, ability, political affiliation, it is you the people who create an equal opportunity holiday!
Happy Holidays! May peace reign in our hearts, our homes, our communities, our country. May we all do all we can to promote peace, harmony, and love around the world.