03/05/2026
Elder Abuse: Seniors Exploited by Trusted Relationships—and Why Employers Should Care.
Elder abuse—defined as an intentional act or failure to act that causes harm or creates a risk of harm to an adult age 60 or older—continues to grow as a serious national concern. Research from federal agencies and advocacy organizations suggests that approximately 1 in 10 older adults experience some form of abuse each year, with financial exploitation among the most common and least reported forms.
A significant portion of these cases involve the exploitation of trust. Rather than strangers, the perpetrators are frequently individuals who hold trusted positions in the senior’s life—family members, intimate partners, caregivers, or individuals with legal authority such as Power-of Attorney. These trusted relationships provide access, credibility, and influence, allowing abusers to manipulate the senior and gain control over finances, property, or other assets.
The methods used often involve deception, manipulation, or undue influence. A caregiver may persuade an older adult to add them to a bank account for “convenience,” then withdraw funds for personal use. A trusted individual may pressure a senior to change a Will or Trust, making the abuser the beneficiary. Others claim valuables are being held for “safe-keeping” but never return them. Emotional manipulation is also common. A person may pose as a devoted friend, romantic partner, or long-lost relative, gradually gaining the senior’s confidence before convincing them to transfer money or assets. Isolation is another frequent tactic—limiting contact with family members or controlling access to information so the exploitation remains hidden.
For working caregivers—employees caring for aging loved ones—recognizing warning signs is critical. Red flags can include sudden changes in bank accounts, unexplained withdrawals, newly altered estate documents, or the sudden appearance of a new “best friend,” caregiver, or self-described relative who rapidly gains financial influence. In many cases, the abuser leverages emotional dependency or “trust by guile,” convincing the senior that only they can be relied upon.
The consequences extend far beyond financial loss. Seniors who are financially exploited often experience worsening health outcomes, neglect, and reduced access to necessary care. But the impact does not stop with the victim—it also affects the workplace. When employees discover that a parent or loved one has been financially exploited, they frequently must devote significant time to crisis management: contacting banks, consulting attorneys, working with Adult Protective Services, and arranging emergency care. This can result in missed work, reduced productivity, increased stress, and unplanned leave.
For employers, the implications are operational as well as human. With roughly one in five workers serving as caregivers for an aging adult, elder financial abuse can translate into workplace disruption, increased absenteeism, and employee burnout. Organizations that recognize this risk and provide caregiver-supportive policies, education, and resources can help employees respond more effectively while maintaining stability within the workforce.
Understanding how trust can be manipulated to exploit older adults is essential. By recognizing warning signs early and supporting working caregivers, both families and employers can play a critical role in protecting vulnerable seniors from financial exploitation and its far-reaching consequences.
If eldercare issues are affecting retention, engagement, or workforce stability in your organization, I welcome the opportunity to connect and exchange practical, people-centered strategies that protect both employees and the business.
Derrick Y. McDaniel
“Mr. Eldercare 101”
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