The Mortality Mentor

09/01/2026

Did you know that when someone loses a loved one and is named executor, they’re handed 500+ hours of work? We can do more to support families after a loss.

That’s why I’m honored to be one of the speakers featured at The Executor Gap Summit on September 17-18 hosted by Professionals of After Loss Services where we’re talking about solutions to this problem. My session is about The Executor Experience: Perspectives, Patterns, and Possibilities from a 2026 Research Study.

Get your free ticket today: https://lnkd.in/gU-D9YhX

07/16/2026

Every day, families are expected to navigate paperwork, deadlines, and dozens of organizations during one of life's most difficult transitions. We want to better understand what actually helps.

Most of us assume a checklist is enough.

The answer is much more complicated.

Because grief and a to-do list don't mix.

The survey takes about ~10 minutes and we would truly appreciate your participation.

We would especially love to hear from:

✅ Anyone who has served as an executor or helped manage someone's affairs during incapacity or after a death

✅ Professionals who support individuals or families during incapacity or after a death

✅ Leaders who influence customer experiences, operations, or employee support

Not sure which category you fit? The survey will guide you.
🔗 https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/ZYX5XX2

If this doesn't describe you, would you consider sharing it with someone whose experience it might describe?

If you have a quick thought or reaction, we would also love to hear it in the comments below.

Thanks for being part of this. We are looking forward to sharing what we learn along the way.

05/03/2026

⚠️ When You Hit the “What Do We Do With This?” Moment...check out these resources!

Earth911 - Search by Zipcode

United States Environmental Protection Agency - Unwanted Household Medicines

Helpful for: Figuring out how to responsibly dispose of things like electronics, paint, batteries, medical equipment, or household medicines

Reality check: Disposal is often one of the most time-consuming parts of a clean-out.

You Don't Have to Navigate This Alone
I support individuals and families through 1:1 and family consultations to help make the administrative side of things after your loved one's death more manageable and less overwhelming. I also collaborate with other professionals depending on what’s needed, so you’re not left figuring out who to call for each piece of the process.

05/01/2026

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04/28/2026

No one warns you about the second job that shows up after someone dies.

I had a chance to talk with St. Louis Magazine about that reality and why it catches so many families off guard.

If you’ve ever experienced this or want to spare someone else from it, take a look and feel free to share!

The one thing that is 100 percent guaranteed in life is the thing humans avoid talking about the most: death. As a society, people tend to ignore the inevitable in hopes that it will never happen. But loss and grief is very real—and with them come a whole lot more mundane concerns as well. Keep ....

04/26/2026

Recent reporting, including from The 19th, highlights just how challenging the process for Social Security survivor benefits can be in practice. Some individuals spend hours navigating phone systems, gathering documentation, and trying to understand eligibility. There is no online application available. Without support or guidance, some abandon the process altogether.

You Don't Have to Navigate This Alone
I support individuals and families through 1:1 and family consultations to help make the administrative side of things after your loved one's death feel more manageable and less overwhelming. I also collaborate with other professionals depending on what’s needed, so you’re not left figuring out who to call for each piece of the process.

04/11/2026

Interested in learning more about estate planning? Check out these upcoming free info sessions with The Laiderman Law Firm P.C. at various St. Louis City Library locations!