08/26/2026
Look who I ran into today while establishing care with my new provider!
The one and only Dr. Antonia Francis Oladipo, a physician I deeply respect and had the privilege of appearing alongside in a documentary about maternal health.
Dr. Oladipo has actually helped me find both my previous provider and now my new provider following my two preventable second-trimester pregnancy losses and nearly losing my life to severe postpartum preeclampsia.
Many of you know my story. If you need a reminder, or you're new to my network, I'll share an article below that tells part of it:
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https://www.nj.com/opinion/2022/05/happy-mothers-day-to-the-women-who-arent-listened-to-calavia-robertson.html
Recently, my provider transitioned primarily to the hospital to deliver babies, which meant continuing my care with other providers in the practice who did not look like me.
For me, and where I am in my journey, representation moving forward matters.
There is also a larger public health conversation here.
In 2024, the maternal mortality rate for Black women in the United States was 44.8 deaths per 100,000 live births, compared with 14.2 for White women. More than 80% of pregnancy-related deaths are preventable.
Research on racial concordance has also found that Black patients can report stronger communication, greater trust, and better patient experiences when receiving care from Black physicians.
Does having a Black physician automatically guarantee excellent care? No.
But representation matters. Being heard matters. Being believed matters. Being treated with dignity and respect matters.
And after everything I have experienced, being intentional about who I trust with my body matters.
Someday, I hope to have a completely different pregnancy experience. One that not only ends with a healthy, living baby in my arms, but with me walking out as a healthy mom, knowing I was heard, respected, treated with dignity, and felt safe throughout my entire journey.
When that time comes, it feels good knowing I am taking steps now to make sure I am in good hands.
I cannot rewrite what happened to me.
But I can be intentional about what happens next.
The advocate is still a patient.
And today, I advocated for her.