11/16/2025
2025 went exactly according to plan… because I really didn’t have one.
This time last year, I had completed my client planning retreat, where I usually work on my own plan. But that didn’t happen.
I was neck deep in creating a new show for IU’s public media station, and we were fast approaching launch. I fell victim to the old saw of prioritizing the urgent over the important. The show launched and by all accounts was a hit.
But at what cost? I was fighting for equal pay for equal work in a job that I’d originally accepted because I thought it would be fun. And I remembered that I’d done what I came to do, so instead of fighting, it was time to protect my peace and leave.
By March, I was giving notice and planning a move to the Pacific Northwest. April, I was packing up or selling off everything we owned. In May, we were in temporary housing, paying rent in two places while we figured out where to live next.
June gave me a chance to get out of my head and meet up with cool peeps at ’s event. That was a helpful re-set for me. July saw Jim with multiple heart procedures, and we moved to our current digs in August. Then, he was diagnosed with cancer in September and surgery in October.
As he completed recovery, a new awareness came over me… that I had gone almost all year without really creating a plan to follow. I also had an awareness about how I was in the middle of an entire paradigm shift for my life and work.
Reinvention like this happens every 7-10 years, but THIS TIME is the first time I can see that pattern and see myself in it.
I am SO glad I have been filming all year for this reality show. It’s helped me see patterns I was ignorant of and growth I would have blown off or missed in past years.
Not this time! And because of that, I have a whole new appreciation for how much better I operate when I start from a clear plan.
So I am giving myself the gift of time- to reflect, reconsider, and put my own tools through their paces for MY benefit, and by extension, the benefit of those that matter to me.
I believe that Eisenhower was right when he said that plans are mostly worthless but the act of planning is a gift we give ourselves.