05/25/2026
For a long time, I thought balance meant evenly splitting my time and energy between work and life.
I wanted to be fully present at work, fully present at home, consistently productive, well-rested, organized, available, and calm every single day.
But in trying to live that way, I just felt like I was constantly falling short somewhere.
What I understand now is that balance was never meant to be a 50/50 split between work and life.
Some weeks work needs more attention - we have a big project, presentation, or event that we're focused on.
Some seasons family needs us more - we have a sick kid, a field trip to the zoo, or baseball games to attend.
There's no magic formula. It's not a mathematical equation. Balance is really about keeping things in the correct proportions.
The good news is that you get to choose what those proportions look like!
Life feels much lighter when we stop expecting perfect equality from ourselves and instead strive to simply be good stewards of our time and energyš