09/01/2026
and just like that we’re done 🤍
*cape curtesy of my accessory-loving 3.5 year old 😂
I weaned my exclusively breastfed 20 month old this past week. I was ready. He wasn’t, but I also knew he’d be okay. I gave him time for the transition and it all worked out just fine.
I’ve now weaned two babies, both at 20 months while pregnant. I’ve learned a lot. But the biggest thing I’ve learned is that it feels a lot more daunting than it actually ends up being.
A few weeks ago weaning him felt nearly impossible. But here’s what I did to make the transition easier:
✨ planned it. I knew I would have a couple weekends away from him, so planned weaning around that. Separation does make it easier!
✨transitioned from on demand nursing to isolated opportunities. He typically would nurse on demand. two weeks ago I started limiting him to only at wake up, nap, and bedtime. Then to just wake up and bedtime. If he attempted at another time I’d say “milkies at bedtime/nap.”
✨Replacement and/or Distraction. This is so key. After telling him when he could have milk, if he was still upset, I’d offer a:
Replacement: a favored food or drink to replace nursing
Distraction: a play activity or toy to distract from nursing.
This never failed me. And it’s what I have done since weaning when he’s asked.
✨Managed Supply. Him being 20 months+being pregnant, I was producing very little milk. I was able to just wean, but if you have a full supply or are producing, you’ll need to gradually decrease nursing sessions. So keep this in mind!
🤍let mr know what questions you have! Was your weaning experience better or worse than you thought?? Let’s help some other moms with some advice and support below ⬇️