Date Coach in the City

06/29/2017

Right now, CASTING in:
ATLANTA, DALLAS, SAN DIEGO and NEW YORK CITY
for an exciting new television dating project!

They are seeking single men and women
(or *couples dating less than 6 months) genuinely looking for love,
wanting to ditch the bar scene and dating apps in an effort
to try a new dating tactic, while sharing their
authentic experiences of navigating love and dating.

If you are single, between 18-80 years old and live
within 100 miles of the cities above, let them know that Date Coach in the City referred you.

03/07/2015

What happens if you decide that falling in love is not something that happens to you, but something that you do?

02/14/2015

If you're feeling stuck in a relationship rut, a little extra spice may be just what you and your significant other need. Once the honeymoon phase passes, it's easy for the initial spark to flicker and fade a bit, but there are plenty of ways to keep the romance alive and kicking! This 30-day challenge is designed to help increase the sweet and s*xy elements in your relationship by doing at least one specific romantic thing, together or for each other, every day for the duration of a month.

This challenge is great for any type of relationship, whether you've been together for years or just want to ramp up the romance. You don't have to do the list in order or wait until the beginning of the month to begin — get started doing this sweet stuff now!

Day 1: Sign up for a class together, or learn something new together.

Day 2: Get it on in a place you've never done it before, even if it's just a different room in the house.

Day 3: Find a scenic location, and watch the sunset together.

Day 4: Dress up, and have a fancy date night.

Day 5: Leave a sweet, s*xy, or romantic note somewhere they will find it.

Day 6: Make time for morning s*x.

Day 7: Stay up late talking. Really catch up and check in with each other.

Day 8: Go see a concert or show together.

Day 9: Take turns photographing each other.

Day 10: Take a scenic road trip, and sing your favorite songs at the top of your lungs.

Day 11: Cuddle up on the couch, and watch or read a romantic film, TV show, or book together.

Day 12: Do one spontaneous thing for the other — either in the bedroom or elsewhere.

Day 13: Send each other compliments throughout the day. The s*xier, the better.

Day 14: Go out somewhere, and show a little PDA.

Day 15: Experiment in the kitchen, and cook up something new.

Day 16: Take a bubble bath or shower together.

Day 17: Challenge each other to a board game.

Day 18: Try something new in the bedroom.

Day 19: Have a couples date with friends.

Day 20: Model new clothes or lingerie for each other.

Day 21: Rent a hotel room to get away from your regular routine for a night. If you want to save cash, camp out on your living room floor or under the stars in your backyard instead.

Day 22: Make a list of the reasons you love them, and share it.

Day 23: Spend a tech-free day together.

Day 24: Pull out old pictures from your early dating days, and revisit the honeymoon phase.

Day 25: Go for a run, take a hike, do yoga, or work out with each other.

Day 26: Make a playlist for each other. Pick songs that mean something to you both.

Day 27: Spend a day giving back to the community together.

Day 28: Give each other massages.

Day 29: Rearrange a room in your house. Change up the furniture, make or buy something to add to the decor, or upcycle something with each other.

Day 30: Turn on some slow music, and dance.

02/11/2015

1. The Ultimate Valentine’s Date – Are you looking for the ULTIMATE romantic Valentine’s date night? Well, this is definitely IT! Get ready to plan THE BEST Valentine’s date you have ever had! Valentine’s candy grams, meal ideas, and romantic activity ideas— all in one post!
2. Valentine’s Destiny Date - Let the cards determine your romantic Valentine’s date! No one, not even YOU, will know for sure what you’ll be doing! This fun and romantic date consists of dinner, an activity, dessert, and adorable FREE printables!
3. 12 Days of Valentine’s - Why not celebrate your love more than just one night?! Your sweetheart will ADORE this romantic 12 Days of Valentine’s idea! Shower your spouse with love by giving him one special card (including coupons, date activities, etc.) each day!
4. Remember When Date Night - Take a romantic stroll down memory lane with this adorable Valentine’s date night idea from Pink Pistachio! Start by writing down some of your favorite memories on little rocks and have them create a trail leading to your final destination! For your final stop, have a romantic set-up with old love letters you’ve saved from past years to read together. You might even bring a lantern, hot cocoa, and tissues to wipe away the tears, as you remember all the sweet memories you have created with your spouse!
5. Spa Date Night Kit - Everyone loves to be pampered, so why not spend your Valentine’s night with a special romantic Spa date! The best part about this date night is it can be done right from home — and you don’t need to spend a fortune to do it! Your sweetheart is sure to LOVE this relaxing and romantic Valentine’s date night idea!
6. Romantic DIY Backyard Dinner Date - This is the PERFECT idea to help you create your very own romantic backyard dinner date! Surprise your spouse with a beautifully decorated Valentine’s table, meaningful DIY gift, and a menu to impress!

01/27/2015

Building and maintaining a long-term relationship can require some work, but it’s also incredibly rewarding. These 8 rules will make your relationship last:

01/11/2015

You’re supposed to call her the next day.

01/03/2015

A side chick is commonly known as a mistress or a woman that's romantically involved with a man who is in a committed relationship. However after doing some reflecting, I realize that's not the on...

12/26/2014

Just in times for a New Year Party... 20 chic Festive Pieces...still looking for love? Be sure to check out our New E- Course coming in the New Year! Start off the new year attracting the love you deserve

In the spirit but not over-the-top.

11/20/2014

A Surprisingly Simple Way To Trigger His Life-Long Commitment

*Make sure his desire to HAVE YOU is GREATER than his fear of commitment. And this desire will continue if you can create an ongoing experience for him that makes him FEEL that committing to you is worth trading in his “freedom.”

*Focus on getting your sense of POWER back, instead of trying to get HIM. Instead of working so hard at the relationship, work hard on yourself and on the rest of your life. Tell yourself that you will be all right no matter what, and that if you stuck to the plan, You’d have the relationship you wanted, even if it wasn’t with him.

And that’s when things REALLY will start to MOVE. The “energy” between you will change completely. In your mind become a prize he needs to pursue in order to “win,” rather than something he was already guaranteed to have for the rest of his life. And almost instantly - he starts FEELING that same way.

Focus on making yourself happy instead of trying to make HIM happy. Speak to him like he was a ROOMATE you are sleeping with, instead of like a potential husband. No pressure

Commitment is an EMOTIONAL process. And the good news is that it’s a process you can easily trigger if you understand the different steps a man takes in order to feel “ready” and fully engage in lifelong commitment with you.

11/20/2014

The 4 Big Mistakes That Get In The Way Of The Commitment You Want

Mistake #1: Focusing On Events, Not Feelings

We women are taught to believe that events, and the time we “put in,” MEAN SOMETHING to a man. If he’s introduced us to his family or friends at work we’re on cloud nine. We think of these as “milestones” moving us closer to commitment and marriage. And we couldn’t be more wrong.

Time means NOTHING to a man. Sometimes, being in a comfortable HOLDING PATTERN with us is EXACTLY what he has in mind! They spend time with us, but then they go and commit to someone else.

Unless we can get into our man’s heart, and let him into ours to create a deep emotional bond, we DOOM ourselves to a superficial level that will never lead to a lifelong commitment.

Mistake #2: Thinking Exclusive = Committed

…women focus on getting a man to be exclusive - but this is only a temporary state. Instead, you need to focus on getting him committed…
How many of you have been comfortable in a relationship, only to have the man you are with meet someone else, or tell you he’s “found someone who really gets me.” How can it be that a man who is exclusive with you can “fall for” someone else so easily? It’s because he was not committed to you.

Oftentimes, women focus on getting a man to be exclusive - but this is only a temporary state. Instead, you need to focus on getting him committed to you. When that happens, he’ll be exclusive AND won’t “fall for” another woman ever again!

Mistake #3: Talking About Your Relationship, Not Creating It

Often when women feel their man becoming distant, they decide to TALK to him about it. To ask how he’s feeling, why he’s acting this way, or where the relationship is going.

When you talk to a man about your relationship, you have the OPPOSITE effect on him than you intend. Though we often hear men say how much they hate how “emotional” women are - this is exactly the part they CRAVE. They are so stuck in their brains, so much of the time, that if we’re stuck in ours, they can’t connect to us.

Every time we TALK about the relationship, it feels to him like a laundry list of to do items instead of INSPIRING a man to want to be with us.

Mistake #4: You Panic… He Leaves

Because we know that “Lifelong-Commitment” is a frightening thing to a man, we’re often afraid to say or do anything that might scare him more.

It’s easy to get paralyzed by fear and anger and stop being ourselves. We stop being the fun, relaxed women who he originally fell for who made him happy. This takes us further AWAY from the commitment we want.

11/04/2014

Hold your dates hand when going through crowds (It lets her know you are a take charge type of guy, you are not afraid to let people know you are together/you're proud to be with her and helps her get use to your touch.)

10/29/2014