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26/08/2026

#18301

M27

I called my college friend yesterday morning and he said he is eloping with his lover yesterday night.

Seems they complained to police and now they are calling me to come for enquiry. I called him after 5 years to check his well being. Now I feel I am trapped. Should I go with lawyer.? My parents are worried. Also I am worried will any news channel publish my details. Suggestion pls

-Guy

26/08/2026

#18300

"I am M 37, am in very much heavy heart after I found that my wife betrayed me.
I have married 10 yrs ago, got a nice job , well settled , having 2 kids one is 8 and another is 4 years, my marital life was disaster from beginning itself even though I adjusted with abu**s, humiliation, physical ab*se from my wife, I was adjusting my life to the core., in a year average 2-3 months she wil be together and remaining days she wil pick some tantrums n fight n gaslight and she will leave me and my children’s n go, it was same routine every time since 2016, so we had a very big fight in 2022 where she filed me with false 498a accusation and still am running to court every month. Since from 2022 we are separated and she lives in separate rent house and I stay in my own house with my elder dad and kids , recently she was not engaged with kids , often she wil tel night shift , going to hospital , have some work etc., and she may not turn even for a week to pick my kids, so all these scenarios was taking place from last 6 months, she blocked my social media’s everything , and yday I opened fake id and checked her postings in insta and found out that she was cheating me, because all pics where taken in some Posh house and she travelled to outstation to many places with that particular person , initially when I asked her she told no I went alone blah blah, but when I zoomed the pic I could able to see a guy is clicking pics, the pics was so revealing because earlier she won’t wear those kind revealing dresses. When I confronted she is blaming me and started abu**ng me like still case in court , I wil update ur case as harassing , it’s better give divorce and settle and u can go anywhere she is threatening me, I felt very shattered after finding those person who I blindly trusted now she s betrayed me and my kids , she too 37 years. From yesterday am getting more suic**al thoughts , even though I was loyal and sincere when she left me apart during my downfall times also I never betrayed her., now I feel lik even I should start a relationship and be with the person by taking child custody. Please suggest me how to overcome this betrayal and situation, am getting sleepless nights , my kids knows everything and they r crying dada plz I need u and as well as my mom, plz don’t leve us. Really I don’t know what to do next . My sincere advice to those who come in between married couples, please don’t ruin the family , for ur 5 mins pleasure and lust how many true and innocent souls are getting departed . Don’t you see marriage is long and generations process , just for sake of lust how many person are getting affected including little kids .sorry for long post , please don’t hurt me with words , already I feel lik am a dead body "

-Guy

26/08/2026

#18299

M34, before 10 years I stayed near medavakkam in a house first floor with my cousin of Same age who were looking for job and with another friend.

That house belongs to a young couple that time which was given to them as marriage asset. Husband worked for H*L and I had almost seen him one or two times in one year duration I and my cousin stayed at house.

That women got pregnant while we leave the house. And we left the area as I got job in Ekkadhthangal side.

After 10 years I went to that area and as the house is individual house there are not much modifications, but I saw a kid about 10 years got dropped by school bus and he looked exactly like my cousin. Because I know how he looked at young age and verified it with his pics as well. Same to same. Today I asked my cousin and he said 3-4 months they were on relationship and later we left and he disconnected her and he also got shocked. Now he said let us keep it between us and ignore. But my point is will it become any issue in future?

-Guy

26/08/2026

#18298

"F- 31
Married for 5 years. Having a 3 yr old son. We are currently looking out for opportunities in abroad, we have passed the initial assessment also. Preparing to write PTE, till now everything seemed okay to me. But now I am feeling like I am the only daughter to my single mother. I am feeling I will definitely miss her and not able to be with her for the future needs. As of now she is working. We have a own house. But still I feel I will miss her and what if something happens and nobody is there to help and all those stuffs. But while considering the job opportunity abroad I feel as a family we have a bright future there. Especially for my son I feel his education will be of top quality. And the way the safety concerns in our country is progressing I feel moving out of I get a chance is the safer prospect for my son and our family as a whole considering the future. We also have some debt, so going there and making more money to clear the debts is one of my primary concern. I know both are having pros and cons. But still wanted to share it on a platform and know ppl views or any approaches to handle this. We have tried multiple jobs here. The pay is not so great, one of the main reasons considered for moving out is money and our son's future. Other point of views are welcome if somebody can give a fresh perspective on this. My husband sometimes looks onto this page. So going anonymous."

-Girl

26/08/2026

#18297

M28 got married before aadi month and my wife went to her mother house one month for the ritual. Now after coming home she is not co-operating, still saying that viradham this viradham, this god that god. Red saree yellow saree nu roaming. How to tune her. Kindly advise based on ur experience with your wife.

-Guy

26/08/2026

#18296

"Bangalore Metro, escalators, and the great Indian sprint 🏃‍♂️💨

I take the Namma Metro 2-4 times a week to office. And every single time, I watch the same drama play out at the escalator.

There's a perfectly good, wide staircase right next to it. And there's a narrow escalator meant to carry you up while YOU STAND STILL. But somehow, a good chunk of commuters treat the escalator like it personally owes them a 100m sprint record. They hop on, start walking, then jogging, then full Baahubali-mode running — shoulder-checking bags, elbowing strangers, all to catch a train that's coming again in 2-3 minutes.

Two to three minutes, guys. Not two to three hours. The metro isn't the last flight to Goa on a long weekend.

This got me thinking (and yes, mildly fuming):

1️⃣ Do people actually know the difference between a staircase and an escalator? One is for walking. One is for standing. It's not a trick question.

2️⃣ Why do people get ON the escalator and then walk/run on it — dashing past those of us who understand its actual use case and are calmly standing, minding our business?

3️⃣ If you're really that urgent, why not just take the wider staircase? It's right there. Built exactly for people in a hurry. Nobody's stopping you.

Here's the thing though — this isn't just a mildly annoying commute observation anymore.

Yesterday, I saw a man rushing on the escalator, dashing through the crowd, and he knocked into a little girl — 4 or 5 years old. She fell, and her tiny hand landed right between two moving steps. Thankfully, her father was quick enough to pull her back in time.

But that ""thankfully"" is doing a LOT of heavy lifting in that sentence.

Because if it had gone differently — if those small fingers had gotten caught between the iron steps — who exactly would be responsible? The person calmly standing, who understood exactly what the escalator is for? Or the person rushing past everyone, chasing a train assumption in their head?

That's the real question I want to sit with, and I want more of us to sit with too. Are we actually using our brains in these moments, or has the world gotten so fast that we've stopped valuing basic discipline and other people's safety, just to save literal seconds?

So — genuine question to everyone reading this: what's the best way to actually educate people on this? Signage clearly isn't working — most escalators already have ""stand on the left, walk on the right"" or ""do not run"" stickers that nobody reads. Metro announcements exist and get tuned out. Is it stronger enforcement? Better design? Or is this just a mindset shift that has to happen one commuter, one conversation, one LinkedIn post at a time?

Would genuinely love to hear how other cities or metros have tackled this — and if you're someone who runs on escalators, no judgment, just... take the stairs next time. They're right there. And they won't have a toddler's fingers anywhere near them.

"

-Guy

26/08/2026

#18295

M26, my friend went to onsite UK and staying with a beautiful foreign country girl. They both are roaming and sharing insta photos. Yesterday they went to swimming pool on arakora dress. Lighta stomach burning. Because I am not even getting local girls looking at me even if I go on beard and stylish manner. But my friend in UK is staying with beautiful girl. Is it common in foreign countries. Now I also wants to go to onsite. Any help pls

-Guy

26/08/2026

#18294

"31f,
Married for 5 years, with 2 kids, a 3 year old daughter and a 6 month old son. 3 years ago, my husband and I were living in Bangalore, right after getting married. He was having an affair with a married woman even before we got married. I didn't know any of this but married him. Just before I conceived my daughter, which was my first pregnancy, I checked his phone and found that he had sent a bouquet to that woman. The bouquet had an ""I love you"" card in it. We fought like anything. He said he didn't notice the card and that he only wanted to send her a flower bouquet. Only a stupid soul would believe him. Then he promised to stay loyal. Then, after a year, I asked him to transfer to Chennai, so we have been in Chennai for the past 3 years. He has blocked her everywhere. She also seems to have blocked him everywhere. I check his phone occasionally without his knowledge. It seems like they have lost touch. But I'm unable to believe that. I keep stalking all the possibilities related to that woman. She's a teacher. I always end up stalking her school and her relatives. I'm unable to stop doing this. I'm wasting a lot of my time on it."

-Girl

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26/08/2026

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26/08/2026

#18293

"Hello,
I know a couple they are my friends .Suddenly while scrolling insta i saw a video where someone surprises by dedicating a song thru insta influencer and they ask the person to find out who dedicated the song andha madri surprise panra page. In that andha wife husband ku surprise call pana solirundhanga and husband andha influencer 1st line padra kula avaru wife name solitanga avanga dha indha song dedicate panirupanga nu. So andha influencer eh shock agi sema nga neenga nu solirupanga, apro avanga lovely moments la share panirupanga , reels lam paka sema cute ah lovely ah dha irundhuchu. Comments also sema love avanga husband ku apdi la potrundhanga. Ana i know about that guy very well ,he is a pakka womaniser. But velila edho romba nala husband madri kamichikranga avanga wife um adha namburanga, world la ye best husband en husband dha nu. So velila romba cute love , sema husband la nu therinja kuda ulla avan ena panran nu yarukum theriyadhu. I feel sad for his wife not knowing what he is doing and bragging about their love. Namalala solavum mudiyala, ana pavama vum iruku , seri namaku edhuku vambu, epdiyum sonalum they will turn against me only, husband ku dha support panuva like M*****atty Rang**j wife, so avala kandu pudicha pudichikatum nu left. So velila irundhu patha sema la thonum avanga life ana ulla adhu mostly unmaiya avlo perfect ah lam irukadhu. So insta pathu lam yemandhu pogadhinga avanga lam super life vazhranga nu. Idhula irundhu na edhum sola varla , suma yarkita sola nu therla adha unga kita vandhu solren 😅
And suppose andha guy idha patha, unaku nala wife kedachiruku, avala genuine ah happy ah vechitu nala vaazhu bro,
Thanks for reading.
Bye. "

-Girl

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