19/06/2026
Standing backstage at the EO Ignite Conference last week, I was convinced someone on the organising committee had decided to punish me.
Why?
Because I was scheduled to speak immediately after Harris III, a world-class performer who had the audience completely captivated.
The facts were not great. It was late in the day. Energy levels were dropping.
The speaker before me was exceptional.
Then Caroline helped me see it differently.
What if this wasn't a punishment? What if it were a vote of confidence?
Nothing changed except the frame.
The same thing happens in business every day. A delayed client becomes an opportunity to strengthen other relationships. A missed target becomes feedback. A difficult quarter becomes preparation for a stronger one.
Golf offers the same lesson. Two golfers can walk off the same course. One talks about the score. The other talks about the conversations, the lessons and the privilege of spending four hours outdoors with friends. Same round. Different experience.
Perspective shapes performance.
AI Prompt:
"I am currently facing the following situation: [Insert situation].
Help me reframe this challenge. Give me five alternative perspectives that an entrepreneur, coach, stoic philosopher, psychologist and trusted friend might take. For each perspective, explain what opportunities become visible, what assumptions may be limiting me, and what practical actions I should consider taking. End by recommending the most constructive frame and explain why it is likely to create the best long-term outcome."