26/12/2017
Casual Car S*x Series Presents
“Going Solo” by Storm Stone, published by www.deepdesirespress.com
A Blog By
Jemma James
Solo S*x Part II
Hi, Jemma James here, sharing with you the intimacies of my Solo S*x life.
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You are a S*xual Being, even if you have no ‘mate’, you are still a S*xual Being.
Millions of single women live s*xless lives while searching/waiting for their ‘mate’ to come along. I’m not saying stop looking for Mr Right, I’m just saying; enjoy a good Solo S*x life while you’re waiting for Mr Right.
S*x with a partner is usually very different to Going Solo. Unless you’re lucky enough to find a mate who enjoys watching you Going Solo…
Keeping up an exciting solo s*x life, will also prevent you from coming across as needy – neediness can be a huge turn off to a potential mate. Rather, you’ll be comparing every guy you meet to your ultra, versatile new toy!
Getting into the Mood
Okay, so you haven’t had solo s*x in weeks/months/years. How do you get yourself into the mood?
Easy!
First and foremost; shave that p***y! You will immediately feel s*xier, more sensitive, more sensual.
If you have a toy(s) gathering dust at the back of your cupboard, bring them out. If you don’t, no problem, start searching the websites, a simple, but quality Bunny Vi****or is probably a good toy to start with. If toys don’t do it for you and you prefer your fingers, that’s also fine.
Now that you’ve shaved that p***y, I presume you’ve had a bath/shower as well. Rub some oil or lotion all over your body. Take your time; enjoy the experience of caressing your whole body.
Then some l**e, best you’ve got, rub it all round your p***y as well as your v***a and right inside your core. If you enjoy a**l, l**e that as***le as well.
By now you should be feeling pretty good.
Set the atmosphere.
Wherever you’re going to do it, make sure the room is comfortably s*xy. If you’re going to watch p**n and you don’t have a TV in your bedroom, make your living-room as atmospheric as possible. Low lights, or candlelight, are essential. No Going Solo under cheap florescent lights, please.
Now you’re watching decent, female-friendly, p**n, or you’re reading your favourite erotic book, or something on your kindle, etc –.
Wait!
You do not begin Going Solo yet. You keep those twitching fingers away from your p***y.
Watch the whole movie from beginning to end, read that particularly smutty s*x scene until the end. Then begin again – watching, reading.
If erotica or p**n is not your thing and you prefer fantasies, go wild. I love fantasizing, sometimes I wish I were a director of p**no movies, I’m that good, maybe it’s the writer in me. Anyway, begin to fantasize, but do NOT touch your p***y yet.
You may caress other parts of your body; t**s, thighs, arms, feet, whatever turns you on.
Your p***y should be slick and wet from the l**e and from your own juices by now. I would suggest waiting a minimum of 10 minutes before touching yourself. No cheating, if you can manage 15 minutes you get 5 Going Solo Stars!
Getting down and dirty.
Now unlike many men (not all), you’re going to take your time. You will not just dive in there and get your rocks off. Oh no, you’re going to tease yourself, you’re going to fo**le your breasts and ni***es, and eventually, you’ll move, slowly down, keeping your legs closed.
You may tighten your bum and thrust your p***y upward, but do not open your legs yet. Allow your fingers to caress your smooth nether lips; you can rub more l**e on them if you like.
You’ll be seriously turned on by now, more than ready.
You are finally allowed to rub a finger along the slit of your p***y. This is one of my favourite parts; that moment when your finger touches the tip of your quivering c**t. Oh the pleasure!
You will carry on doing this for about five minutes, legs closed, just your finger moving up and down the slit of your p***y. You’ll probably be going crazy by now, maybe you’ve even given in and slid your finger inside, enfolded by your smooth lips…
Ok, if you’re still with me now and haven’t given in yet – Bravo –your discipline will take you to new heights.
Begin to tease that c**t, open your legs a little. Do not just focus only on your c**t, your smooth p***y lips need to be kept wet and stroked, your whole v***a needs attention.
We haven’t mentioned your core, or rather, the entrance to your va**na. Surprisingly most of these nerves are at the entrance, so you’ll be needing width rather than length. Keep this in mind if you’re going to buy toys.
If, by now, you’ve cracked and are giving your body what it wants; go for it, enjoy every second and I wish you a long, intense or**sm that you can lose yourself in completely.
If you’re holding back and are the lucky owner of a vi****or of some kind, now would be the time to start making use of it. Beginning from the outside, pleasure your lips, your c**t, your v***a, but don’t go near your core until you cannot bear not to do so.
Many women get off from c**toral stimulation alone, others like both. Whatever, you’ve got two hands, use them, if you have a toy(s) use it; inside, outside wherever.
During all this time you may be watching p**n, reading erotica, or, at least fantasizing about being totally and thoroughly fu**ed. Whatever, keep doing what feels best;
• If the p**n star’s voice is getting on your nerves mute it.
• If holding that book is limiting you, drop it, close your eyes and imagine yourself in the story.
• And if you’re lucky enough to be getting your rocks off with your fantasies, go for it! Take your fantasy to the extreme.
Don’t be afraid to talk dirty to yourself as well:
“F**k me, f**k me, oh God give me that c**k, give it to me hard.”
“Make me your slut, your f**k-doll, f**k my face, please baby.”
Dirty talk can really turn you on when you’re close to the edge.
Happy Going Solo, until we meet again.
Jemma James
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