16/10/2026
Can a child have a say in decisions about their own life?
When parents disagree about where a child should live, schooling, contact arrangements or other important decisions, it can be tempting for adults to make every decision on the child’s behalf.
But South African law recognises that children have a voice.
Under the Children’s Act, a child who is of an age, maturity and stage of development that allows them to participate has the right to express their views in matters affecting them. Those views must be given due consideration.
This does not mean a child automatically gets to choose where they live or that their wishes always determine the outcome.
The guiding principle remains the best interests of the child, taking account of the circumstances and the child’s needs.
Children should not be made to feel that they must choose sides. Their feelings and views deserve to be heard in an age-appropriate way, without placing the burden of adult disputes on their shoulders.
A child’s voice matters, even when adults have the final responsibility for making decisions.
Disclaimer: This post is for general informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. For advice tailored to your specific circumstances, please contact Cavanagh & Richards Attorneys at [email protected].