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31/08/2026

The Gift of Sisterhood
By Lusanda Dhlamini Lusanda Dhlamini

As we close this month, known to many South African women as Women’s Month, I am reminded of the beautiful friendship between two cousins: Mary and Elizabeth.

Recently, I lost my cousin. Our fathers were brothers, and in African culture, she was not simply my cousin—she was my sister. And that is exactly how we loved one another.

We cried together, celebrated together, prayed together, and shared wisdom. We saw each other’s weaknesses, not to dwell on them or condemn one another, but to help each other turn them into strengths. We also celebrated and cheered each other on in our strengths.

Perhaps the most beautiful part of our relationship was discussing the ways of God—those things we could not always understand or fathom. Isaiah 55:8–9 reminds us that His thoughts are not our thoughts, and His ways are higher than our ways. We cannot put God in a box.

In honour of my sister, Zintle, who ran to me and I to her—whether in times of celebration or when we needed prayer—may this be a reminder to give your all to your sisterhoods and friendships.

Like Mary and Elizabeth, may we be friends who make room for one another, believe with one another, pray for one another, and celebrate what God is doing in each other’s lives.

Tag a woman who has been an Elizabeth or Mary to you, and thank her for the gift of sisterhood.

28/08/2026

SUCCESS IS OBEDIENCE

God has stretched me in ways I never expected. He has asked me to pioneer, step out, and pursue things I would normally have been too afraid to do.

At times, I have felt unqualified. Fear has gripped me, and I have questioned whether I have the skills, capacity, or experience for what God was asking of me.

But the Holy Spirit gently encouraged me:

“Lusanda, your YES to God is a breakthrough for someone else.”

Those words changed my perspective.
I began to understand that it is not always about my skills, my capacity, or whether I feel ready. It is about my heart posture. It is about obedience.

God is teaching me that success can be summed up in one word:

OBEDIENCE.

Perhaps you are standing before something God has been nudging you to do—a project, a ministry, a business, a conversation, or an assignment. Maybe you feel fearful, unqualified, or simply do not have the capacity you think you need.

But what if your YES is connected to someone else's breakthrough?

What if, on the other side of your obedience, is someone else's purpose, healing, encouragement, or hope?

Don't allow fear to make decisions that obedience was meant to make.

Say YES to God.

You may not have everything you need, but you have the One who called you.

✨ On the other side of your YES is someone waiting for your obedience.

Tag a woman who needs this reminder today: SAY YES! 🙌🏾

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21/08/2026

Joy & Sorrow in the Same Heart

If you had told me 10 years ago that joy and sorrow could exist in the same heart, at the same time, I would have said it was impossible. Yet, years of serving in ministry have taught me that it is possible.

Pastors can bury someone in the morning, mourning with a grieving family, and later conduct a wedding, genuinely rejoicing with a couple as they begin a new chapter. You can attend a baby shower celebrating a mother-to-be and receive news that a family you have been praying with has lost their child.

This past week reminded me of this truth. I lost my cousin, Zintle Pelisa Bubu, whom I was extremely close to. Our fathers are siblings. Yet, my pastoral calling and responsibilities did not stop. I still had to celebrate with those who needed me and, at the same time, process the sudden loss of my sister and help plan and administer aspects of her memorial service.
I am resting in the truth that God sees me. He sees my pain, understands my emotions, and allows me to bring them to Him whenever they surface.

Wednesday night was difficult. I struggled to sleep as I processed her death, but my husband covered me in prayer through the night. At her memorial service, God gave me strength to stand.

Today, I feel that familiar heaviness in my stomach when I am overwhelmed. All I can do is keep looking to El Roi, the God who sees me, and my Comforter.

Saturday, her body will be laid to rest in our childhood town of Lusikisiki. It still feels unbelievable.

Lord, help me heal.
Rest in perfect peace, my sister and friend, Zintle Pelisa Bubu. 💔🕊️

12/08/2026

Have you prayed today, sis? 🙏🏽❤️

You know you can pray in your car, in the shower, while cleaning, while cooking, or simply sitting quietly in His presence. Prayer doesn’t always require a perfect setting—it simply requires a willing heart.

My friends at CUM Books know that I am a WOMAN ON A MISSION TO PRAY… AND WRITE IT DOWN! 📝🙏🏽

I want to remember what I prayed for, recognise what God has done, and have a testimony of His amazing faithfulness and goodness.
Sis, don’t underestimate the power of your prayers. Your Father hears you. Job 22:27 reminds us that when we pray to Him, He hears us.

Here’s a simple acronym to help you structure your prayer time:
P — Praise: Start with praise and worship.
R — Repent: Ask God for forgiveness and surrender your heart to Him.
A — Ask: God is your Father. Bring Him what is in your heart and ask according to His will.
Y — Yes: Believe that God hears you and trust Him with His answer and His timing.

Women, let’s become women who pray, believe, write it down and testify! ✍🏽🔥

Carve out time to sit at the feet of the Father. Tell Him everything. Listen for His voice. Write down what He is saying. And watch how He turns prayers into testimonies.
May God richly bless you as you seek His face in prayer. ❤️

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12/08/2026

WOMAN ON A MISSION

I have been a follower of Jesus Christ for 20 years now. My mission has always been to worship Him wholeheartedly and to be obedient to what He asks me to do. I have probably dropped a ball or two along the way in my desire to walk in obedience.

Before I met Jesus, I had dreams, but I never executed them. They stayed in my head. One of the reasons I didn't pursue them was because I was scared—What if I fail?

It was only later that I discovered the root of my fear of failure was connected to my teenage pregnancy. A lot of ugly and hurtful things were said about me, and subconsciously, I began to believe that there was nothing better for me out there.

When I think about it now, I can even look back at the type of men I dated and see how some of those beliefs influenced my choices.
Anyway, through the Holy Spirit, the Lord opened my eyes to why He created me and the works He had set aside for me to do.

Psalm 37:4 came into context.
Proverbs 29:11 came into context.
Proverbs 29:18 became clear as day.

I know this much: my mission to follow Jesus obediently and wholeheartedly has not changed.
It has been a journey that has required endurance, perseverance, faith, boldness, courage, consistency and the belief that He who started the work in me will definitely complete it.
I am not certain how it will all work out.

But I know He is faithful.
He is good.
And He keeps His promises.

So, I keep going.
I keep dreaming.
I keep obeying.
I keep believing.
I keep showing up.

Because I am a woman on a mission.

Not because I have everything figured out, but because I know the One who called me.
And I trust Him with the journey.

09/08/2026

Perhaps you are the Esther God is raising up in your generation.

Kingdom Women, arise!
Arise with courage.
Arise with wisdom.
Arise with strength.
Arise for truth.
Arise for justice.
Arise for those who cannot speak for themselves.

May we never underestimate what God can do through a woman who is willing to say, “Yes, Lord. Send me.”

Happy Women's Day

29/07/2026

Purpose Driven Woman's Checklist By Lusanda Dhlamini

Have you asked God what needs to be in your checklist for your season? We need to learn to identify what God wants us to focus on in the seasons we find ourselves in.

This is a generic list I put together for women who want to lead a purposeful life.

Written dreams, goals & vision
Regular journaling
Self Awareness
Healthy Relationships
Effective impact & influence in spaces you are called to
Bible Reading and Studying
Prayer & Worship

With the right thoughts, the right actions, and the right relationships, whatever divine dreams rest in your heart are possible. Valorie Burton

There is GOLD in you woven by God, and He wants it to shine for His glory.

28/07/2026

Coaching & Mentoring with Lusanda Dhlamini

Purpose-Driven vs. Good Opportunities

In The Purpose Driven Life, Rick Warren writes:
"We are products of our past, but we don't have to be prisoners of it."

Many of us are presented with good opportunities, but not every good opportunity aligns with God's purpose for our lives. A purpose-driven life is not about being busy; it is about being intentional, obedient, and faithful to what God has called you to do.

Take a moment to reflect:

When you are living a purpose-driven life, what behaviours and habits are evident?

You seek God before making decisions.
You have clarity and direction.
You are intentional with your time and priorities.
You can confidently say "no" to distractions and opportunities that don't align with your calling.
You persevere even when the journey is difficult because you know your "why."
You invest in continual growth and serve others with your gifts.

When you are not living purposefully, what behaviours and habits begin to appear?

Constantly chasing every opportunity that comes your way.
Feeling overwhelmed, distracted, and stretched too thin.
Comparing yourself to others.
Making decisions based on fear, pressure, or the fear of missing out.
Living reactively instead of intentionally.
Feeling unfulfilled despite being busy.

A purpose-driven life does not mean every day is easy. It means every step is anchored in the One who designed you. The greatest fulfilment comes not from doing more, but from doing what God created you to do.

Reflection Questions:

What habits in your daily life reveal that you are living according to your purpose?
What distractions or "good opportunities" have pulled you away from your God-given assignment?

What is one intentional step you can take this week to realign your life with God's purpose?

"For we are God's handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do." — Ephesians 2:10

22/07/2026

Coaching & Mentoring With Lusanda Dhlamini Lusanda Dhlamini

Every one of us carries a unique story. Some chapters are filled with joy and breakthrough, while others are marked by pain, disappointment, loss, or uncertainty. Yet every experience has value.

When I reflect on my own journey, I can clearly see that the moments which caused me the greatest pain have become the very places from which God has shaped my purpose.

My experiences have become tools that allow me to encourage, coach, mentor, and serve others.

What life experiences has God entrusted to you?
Perhaps it's not only the painful moments. It could be your career, your education, your business, your parenting journey, your leadership experience, or a skill that comes naturally to you.

God wastes nothing. He has an incredible way of weaving every season together to reveal His purpose and bring glory to His name.

"And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose." — Romans 8 vs 28

21/07/2026

Coaching & Mentorship With Lusanda Dhlamini Lusanda Dhlamini

What if your personality isn't something to overcome... but a clue to your God-given purpose?

One of the biggest surprises for the women I coach and mentor is discovering that their personality matters when shaping their purpose.

I'm naturally an extrovert. I love connecting with people, communicating, encouraging, and building relationships. Looking back, I can see that God intentionally wired me this way because communication is a significant part of my calling.

But here's the question: How has God wired you?

Take a moment to reflect:
✨ What personality type are you?
✨ Where do you believe your personality serves you best?
✨ Are you willing to stretch beyond your comfort zone for the sake of your purpose?
✨ Does your personality flourish on its own, or does it thrive within a team?

There are no "better" personality types. God doesn't make mistakes. He created each of us uniquely, and understanding how He designed you can unlock greater clarity, confidence, and direction.

These are some of the powerful conversations we explore in my coaching and mentoring sessions. When you understand who you are, you begin to understand why you're here.

💬 Did you ever consider that your personality could be one of God's clues to your purpose?

I'd love to hear from you. Tell me in the comments:

What's your personality type, and how do you think God wants to use your personality type?

The smallest insight about yourself becomes the biggest breakthrough in discovering your purpose.

Join the conversation—you may encourage someone else with your story.

Lusanda Dhlamini

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