12/02/2026
As we approach V-Day, have you ever considered that not everyone looks forward to Valentine’s Day? For some, it stirs up grief from a lost partner. For others, it highlights loneliness after a breakup, divorce, or years of feeling unseen. It can resurface memories of betrayal, abandonment, rejection or relationships that weren’t safe or healthy. The day can feel like a loud reminder of what’s missing.
Emotionally and psychologically, days like Valentine’s can amplify comparison. Social media becomes a highlight reel of affection, while someone else may be silently battling feelings of inadequacy or unworthiness. It’s not that they “hate love.” It’s that the day presses on tender places.
And if you’re someone who loves Valentine’s Day, that’s beautiful too. Just remember that not everyone experiences it the same way. A little kindness goes a long way. What are your thoughts about V-Day?