28/11/2025
Text: Luke 9:23 — “Whoever wants to be My disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow Me.”
Introduction
Jesus never called us to a comfortable life. His call is radical, challenging, and life-transforming. When He says, “Take up your cross,” He is inviting us into a life of surrender and obedience. But today, many believers want Jesus to follow them — their plans, their desires, their timing — instead of truly following Him.
Let us look at what Jesus meant, the struggle of bearing the cross, and the danger of reversing the roles.
1. What It Means to Carry Your Cross
a) A Cross Is a Symbol of Death
In Jesus’ time, a cross meant one thing: death.
Carrying the cross means dying to:
your own will
sinful desires
pride
self-direction
It is choosing God’s will above your own.
b) A Cross Is a Burden You Don’t Choose
No one volunteered to be crucified.
The cross Jesus gives you is not always what you want, but what shapes you:
trials
sacrifices
obedience
persecution
spiritual discipline
c) It Is a Daily Decision
Jesus says “daily.”
You don’t carry yesterday’s obedience into today — each day requires fresh surrender.
2. The Problem of Carrying the Cross
Carrying the cross is not easy. There are real struggles:
a) The Cross Is Heavy
Obedience can be hard.
Forgiving someone, resisting temptation, loving difficult people, or staying faithful in trials — these things are weighty.
b) The Cross Goes Against Comfort
The flesh wants ease.
The cross demands sacrifice.
It pulls us away from pride, selfishness, and convenience.
c) The Cross Is Lonely
Sometimes you walk a path others don’t understand.
Not everyone sees the value of your sacrifice.
d) The Cross Is Painful
It exposes your weaknesses and challenges your faith.
God uses the cross to crucify what should not live in you.
But even with these challenges, the cross is necessary because there is no resurrection without crucifixion.
3. The Danger of Having Jesus Follow