18/06/2025
There are THREE kinds of people You should beware of in this life.
1. The ones who keep silent in public but come to support you in private. That one I personally have no use for. I've had people come to me, others even phone me after a misunderstanding to tell me that they think I was in the right & that they feel the other person was just being petty & vindictive... Yet in that moment when the debate was still hot & their input wud have made a difference, they were quiet.
2. People who come to tell u bad things that were said about u by other people. That's someone I personally do not like at all.
Whatever bad things people may say about me, as long as I never get to hear them, they will never bother me. But the moment u come to me and tell me that, "so & so was saying this & this about u " then u have also become part of my problem.
I appreciate people who tell me bad news under certain conditions:
1. If they want to warn me to beware of that person. & even then, i feel they can warn me without going into the details of what was said.
2. If what was said about me has the potential to put my life in some kind of danger or it will make me suffer some kind of loss, then I do appreciate the heads up.
3. If what was said about me puts me at a disadvantage and I need to know so I can work on it or do better.
Other than that, i dont take too kindly to bearers of hurtful news.
Anyone who comes to tell me bad things that were said about me by others for no particular reason but just to make sure I hear what was said, that one I do not like.
The bearer of hurtful news is not your friend.
Some just want to make sure u hear what's being said about u so u can get hurt.
& others actually agree with what your official enemies said & so they take advantage of the situation to come report to u so they themselves can indirectly tell you off.
Don't trust people who always know the bad things that others say about u.
Why are people even comfortable saying bad things about
